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[-] [email protected] 149 points 10 months ago
[-] [email protected] 69 points 10 months ago

It's funny I've had interactions on dating sites that would be unspeakably vulgar in person but somehow come across as gallant in that context.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Honestly it's the rare exchanges like this that make me wish I was on the dating scene in this era cuz damn that was not a thing in my day. But the rest of it sucks so much, no matter the era lol

[-] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

The getting laid part is the best part imo, but you have to want it badly enough to wade through some shit.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Oh. I'm good. Lol

[-] [email protected] 122 points 10 months ago

at least they aren't discriminatory...?

[-] [email protected] 183 points 10 months ago

Yeah this might be a green flag. Person is being upfront about their needs, they're trying to fuck. It's fine if that's not what you're looking for but if you are, it's fine (imo) to be completely upfront about it.

[-] [email protected] 37 points 10 months ago

Homeboy is tryna fuck and is communicating clearly and asking for interest/consent. Vulgar? Sure, but still a class act. I hope he got to hit it.

[-] [email protected] 28 points 10 months ago

Yesss! Oh my god, just be up front about what you want! I hate when people lie about their intentions on dating sites.

[-] [email protected] 81 points 10 months ago

If at first you don't succeed, try try again.

[-] [email protected] 27 points 10 months ago
[-] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago

beware of rusty drain pipes

second worst mistake of my life

[-] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago

second worst mistake of my life

What is the ... you know what, never mind.

[-] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

This man has fornicated with a rusty drainpipe.

Do you really want to hear what their biggest mistake was?

[-] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago
[-] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Sometimes the link should stay blue, ya feel me?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Rusty drain pipe is a stand in for unclean ass

[-] [email protected] 69 points 10 months ago

That would work with me lol

[-] [email protected] 59 points 10 months ago

The word bussy was right there. 0 for effort

[-] [email protected] 69 points 10 months ago

Only boys have bussies, not trans women

[-] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago

Is it short for boy pussy or butt pussy?

[-] [email protected] 47 points 10 months ago

generally it means boi pussy but i like where your head is at

[-] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Which head?

[-] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

i thought the b was for bottom?

[-] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

Always thought it was "back pussy". Completely gender neutral.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 10 months ago

butt pussy?

That's what I thought damn

[-] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

It’s short for boy pussy, but the term’s original usage was in the gay male community and referred to the anus. It has also been co-opted for use by the transmasculine community. Though, in my personal experience as a trans femme top, I’ve met boys that call their anus that, and use ‘front hole’, which is off limits. And I’ve met boys that call their vagina that.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago
[-] [email protected] 56 points 10 months ago

aww, this is what true allyship looks like 😊 😊 😊

[-] [email protected] 31 points 10 months ago

Hey, clear expectations were set from the very beginning.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

Complete lack of imagination. Just want I want, a brainless meatsack on top of me for 5 minutes.

Is this the tinder experience? Might be looking at trans friendly dating apps soon.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

Well, give us more to work with, then! What exactly are you tryna get pounded?

[-] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

First misstep... I generally do the pounding, friend :* just cuz I'm a girl doesnt mean I'm a bottom xD

Unless you're offering to do housework for me. In that case I suppose a number of things could benefit from a good pounding.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

When 90% of the people you talk to are going to ignore or ghost you, you shouldn't put much effort into trying to impress someone who is, for all intent and purposes, a photo with a name.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

I had good luck with a site called Taimi. Not sure if it's still around but it was much better for dating versus the hookup culture of Tinder. I met my partner there and we've been together for years.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Have no words

[-] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Me and who?

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