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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago

Some people started businesses. Some people turned their entire house into a Lego garden.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 23 hours ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 14 hours ago

I started transitioning 2 years before the pandemic, but it was still nice to be at home and not having to deal with people in person. Lots of people were and still are not very accepting of my transition.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The full remote time during the pandemic allowed me to slowly update my profile pic for work until people started asking me what my pronouns were.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 hours ago

I was getting ready to come out to my sister in like late 2021, she had a really bad motorcycle accident and we were catching up and it seemed like the right time to tell her.

then she started talking about how a near death experience made her start re-evaluating some things, and then she came out to me and it was the fucking spiderman pointing meme. Both of us moved to WFH after covid hit so the timing makes sense, but it was such a wonderful coincidence.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 23 hours ago

A shutdown very well spent!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I grew bitter and resentful towards people who complained about how hard it was to work from home and all the downtime they had while I had to trudge into “critical” work everyday for low pay.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

These comics always confuse me because I forget anyone other than children had to stay home (and even that didn't last too long)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

That does suck, I also grew bitter and resentful to all the people with families being like “oh I got fit and healthy and spent time with my loved ones” while I went over 3 months without a single face to face conversation with anyone…

[–] [email protected] 6 points 17 hours ago

My cousin's wife divorced him after 6 months to move to her home country. Her stated reason was that during lockdown, she was isolated from her friends and family, and she couldn't handle being alone again.

It was hard on all of us but...uh...what does she think the rest of us single people did?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 20 hours ago

Oh my gosh, I had 2 kids, went back to college, rocketed my fledgling IT career forward and gained a mortgage during the pandemic. Granted I probably would've done all those things without the pandemic, but many of the pandemic era policies helped make each of those steps much easier than they normally would have been

[–] [email protected] 17 points 21 hours ago

After years of being told teleworking was an impossbility, I was sent home to work and didn't even miss an hour on my timesheet.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I always struggle with the "shutdown" timeframe. Partly because I have a shit sense of time, but mostly because nothing really changed for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 21 hours ago

Only thing that changed for me was the workload got higher due to coworkers getting sick and a nice reminder of my own catching the virus with what seems like chronic asthma

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Where's the "I started half a dozen hobbies and projects and didnt really stick to any of them" character?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Probably at [email protected] 🤷

Though tbf, we also tend to do that when there's no shutdown 😁

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

hm. i should book that appointment some time eh

[–] [email protected] 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Can you book one for me, too? I've been telling myself to do that for over a year now.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

i uh. yeah. a year. a year or two ago i went to an initial eval to get a recommendation for therapy. Doc told me it makes sense to find a spot since i have so much trouble getting tasks started that it impacts my day to day function.

Guess what I didn't do with that recommendation?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

It really sucks that ADHD treatment is NOT ADHD friendly. The usually very cheerful How To ADHD even made a very frustrated video about it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

https://youtu.be/eRPeU1DYOWA

Benn Jordan did a deep dive into the shortage of ADHD drugs in the US. It stinks of bribery and corruption

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Aww shucks. But I believe in you <3

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 day ago (8 children)

I work in retail so the only thing that changed for me during the pandemic was my level of anxiety.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I got drunk a lot and called it "getting into making cocktails"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

I started making Sous Vide infused syrups for my cocktails. Which led to a lot more cocktails & an esoteric obstinance when it comes drinking well drinks out on the town… poor bartenders.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

And now people say I have a problem. I don’t have a problem. You have a problem.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Furry guy needs more confidence.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago

Nothing changed for me except the prevalence of masks. Everyone I worked with got stuffed into an off-site office instead of working from home, and I'm still bitter about it. Nothing we did required anything other than a computer and maybe a phone. Fully remote helpdesk.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Can someone ELI5 me the whole furry thing? Is this a community, is this a sexual thing? Is it an American thing?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago

One possible reason from many is that it's fun to not be human because humans aren't so great to each other. Look into the link between autism and identifying as non-human (there are multiple ways of doing so).

Signed, an autistic being who does not feel emotionally attached to being a human, but is not a furry.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

ELI5

Furries are people who enjoy dressing up as or creating characters based on anthropomorphic animals, which are animals that have human-like traits such as walking on two legs, talking, or wearing clothes. These characters might be foxes, wolves, cats, or any other animal but with a personality or appearance that feels human-like.

Some furries create artwork, write stories, or role-play as these characters online, while others might dress up in costumes called "fursuits" to bring their characters to life in the real world. It’s a hobby and a community that’s mostly about creativity, imagination, and expressing yourself through these animal characters.

Is this a community, is this a sexual thing?

It can be either or both. I think for the most part it is community though. For some it starts as one and then expands into the other. For me it really is a lot about self discovery & self expression, SFW & NSFW, and makes me feel more connected to the world.

Or to put it in mature comic form: https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/furry/

Is it an American thing?

No, European here with quite some insight. I think the map in the other post is slightly misleading, as bigger countries like the US have more conventions than smaller countries is kind of obvious.

If you have more questions, feel free to ask 😊 I will do my best to offer my perspective on this.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

ofc. Furries are crestive people who enjoy art/litterature/etc. about anthromorphic animals(like werewolves!). A lot of us have our own characters/personas that we create as a avatar of ourselves or to express our creativity and aspects of our identity on a character. This is called a fursona. Now since the only criteria is to enjoy anthromorphic animals(aka furries) there is a lot of range. A lot of us enjoy dressing up as our characters on furcons like people who dress up as their favorite character at comicon. And this interest in furries/anthromorphic amimals/werewolfesque characters can be sexual too for a lot of people. (of course this doesn't have to be) It is just a very big welcoming community of creatives and fans of anthromorphic characters. Hope this helps

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

re “is it an american thing,” someone else will have to field the rest of your question

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

counterpoint, America is big, has atrocious public transport, and though furries that can afford suits can probably also afford flights, there's plenty who cannot afford either, or just pick one

[–] [email protected] 12 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

It's for the safety of IT departments everywhere that furries' need for travel is limited

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

There could also maybe be $50,000 worth of fursuits there too

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

🤘 Lol, double or triple it. 😅

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Compare with a GDP per capita map. I'm not an economist, but it appears furries are wealth 📈

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

We need some data on the poor furries who can’t afford cons. Back in high school it was just a matter of sticking a fluffy tail to the back of your pants

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

from the stories I hear about commissions for art and suits, I'd agree. but then again, it's probably also like mountaineering, either you live like a bum out of your van, or you organize expesive ass trips to far away mountains

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