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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What I observed was people willing to throw someone off a balcony simply because he set the curve. People are either murderers, or murderer-enablers.

When people start punishing abusers to the point where it stats looking like a holocaust, maybe then they can be redeemed. Until the abusers are traumatized into submission, there will be no justice.

[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dude, see a therapist or something man.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've seen multiple therapists - but therapizing me doesn't stop other people from abusing me. Getting people to stop is the only goal, the only way I can survive.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I spy with my little eye: A common denominator! You!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There's more than one common denominator. You forgot at least human nature.

One person can only do so much; if the rest of society refuses to act in good faith out of malignant narcissism, what do you expect me to do?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Bro really took a comment by a guy named Willy Wanker 69, who's trying to make a joke, seriously

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The last person I failed to take seriously stuck a bowie knife in my gut; I lost a yard of intestine to that.

I don't give people an inch - especially after that.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Of course not - you need to protect your narcissistic world view.

I promise you I don't give people an inch - and that's all that matters. Disbelieve the rest if you want.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If the people around you are really that bad, leave that place and lay low. Has your dominance thing actually improved the situation, or has it brought more conflict?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Moving is what started this whole mess; moving made me an "invader" that "didn't belong" to where he was moved to. That's why people are wiling to kill me to get rid of me.

I am laying low, but I've been in the same spot longer than anyone else around here - it's the only reason I'm still alive today.

And it's not "my" "dominance thing" - it's part of human nature and it's the source of the conflict. People demand that I grovel to them, be perfectly obedient to them, and I refuse.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Prove anything you've said. Share pictures of your several life threatening wounds. Share screenshots of your innumerable acts of kindness that were met with violence. Provide evidence of any of your unbelievable claims or GTFO

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The fact that you find my perfectly reasonable claims "unbelievable" is a reflection of your character, not any part of me.

I'm not going to doxx myself to make it easier for you to hunt me down and torture me. Go fuck yourself.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really love the reddit level fake stories and gaslighting!

This platform has started to shape into a drop in replacement for normies!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Your belief that this story is fake exposes your own failure of character.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yes, I know

You got anything new that I haven't heard?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Punishment probably isn't the best way to improve things. Even under your view of things, it should be clear that punishment does more to make the punisher feel good than actually solve problems.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's the only way to improve things. Things cannot improve until you stop people from making it worse - and the only way people will stop making things worse is if they're too traumatized to act.

Things cannot get better as long as you let people have free will - their free agency will always drive them to worsen things for their own benefit. The power of free will corrupts them.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You people have been exercising fascistic behavior towards me since I was a child. Who are you to complain about receiving your own medicine?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I don't know you, why should I care enough about you to have "fascistic behaviour" towards you?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

“You get what you fucking deserve!”

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I sympathize with your pain but also holy fuck I hope you never get your way. I’ve seen what happens when people who think like you get power, they’re brutally abusive.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You need not worry about that - people will nuke the plane before they let me have any power. This is the extent of their zealotry.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Believe it or not, most people will stop doing things if they are convinced that it isn't in their self interest. The idea that trauma is effective at getting people to stop doing something is neither accurate or acceptable. Trauma could easily make some people lash out and cause even more damage. If there's something we shouldn't tolerate, it's people who want to inflict unnecessary and unproductive harm on other people. It probably didn't make you less of a threat.

You need help, and not just therapy. You would benefit from real life friends and positive interactions with people who treat you as an equal. Residential treatment might be a good idea if you haven't done it before. Treatment will only work if you work with it. It's assistance, not having the problem solved for you. You need to do some of the lifting.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

You have my attention. A charged response like that deserves a moment of consideration at the Very least.

What experience or experiences brought you to this opinion?

i speak having come from a broken home, destroyed by alcohol. unwanted by my mother and never set eyes on my dad, abused physically and emotionally by said mother as she took her failures out on me...what i mean by that, is...I've been in the dark places and I still frequent dark thoughts. i was robbed of justice in a world that owes me nothing...I've felt my share of rage and misplaced entitlement. So when i ask you, what's up? please do not think i am being dismissive nor combative. i genuinely would like to hear about 'it'