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[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago

This is the answer. Blocking them does nothing to them, banning them lets them feel like the victim and let's them do mental gymnastics to learn the wrong lesson

No, we live with these people. We're connected to them in many ways, and cutting this one link to them is just ignoring them until they do something we can't ignore

We don't need to make them quit - we need to make them run away. They need to feel the community rise up against them. They need to feel mocked and hated for their words. They need to feel anxiety before they say hateful things - online and IRL

They need to learn. And when they crawl back, censoring themselves and making an effort for the sake of acceptance, we need to be kind and show them the road back. Eventually they'll understand, or at least they'll understand how to act

We need to fix their behavior, and this is a constructive and morally justified way to let out all your frustration and anger

[–] [email protected] 26 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Just play Valorant as a woman and you’ll learn cyber bullying in 24 seconds

[–] [email protected] 22 points 15 hours ago

Gamers^TM^ when woman:

[–] [email protected] 15 points 17 hours ago

I've just started blocking assholes. It's a good thing I did, as there seems to be two that comment on things I say often that I never see.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Cyberbullying is sometimes acceptable

It doesn't teach anyone a lesson, but it can keep cretins out of places where decent, non-racist folk gather :)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 15 hours ago

I'm happy to be capable of dismantling most bigots online. I understand how they think and what hurts them enough to keep them away. I rarely need to block because I'm not fun to attack.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

My recent banning from [email protected] is a badge of honor

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

...there is not a single post on that community's front page with a positive score.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

The mod doesn't care. They're equally downvoted but just blame "the crazy liberals."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

A quick browse through that subreddit's comment section shows a good 80% of commenters (and virtually all comment voters) are left-of-center. What did you have to do to get them to ban you, cause it sounds pretty difficult

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I used to use Sync for Lemmy and it would show deleted or banned posts in some situations. The community is a graveyard of lost arguments.

The secret to being banned seems to be to bring evidence and ask them "did you even read it?" when they argue a bad faith interpretation of it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago

that community is so fucking funny

[–] [email protected] 15 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

transcript (manual):

[photo of very wet forest, all caps text in middle:]
cyberbully racists until they block you

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I do this at times, I know I’m unlikely to convince them, so might as week see how angry I can get them for the funny

[–] [email protected] 6 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Just blocked one. No energy to bully them till they block me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago

Yes indeed, will do!