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TOPPED RULE (lemmy.world)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 122 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[–] [email protected] 107 points 5 months ago (2 children)

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[–] [email protected] 66 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Such rizz for a jballer!

[–] [email protected] 28 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

fr no cap that’s so skibidi

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

🍾🍾🍾

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I got both the meaning you mention and the sexual meaning