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Most places allow for default judgments if one party won't cooperate. I've met quite a few people who ended up going that route. Was he present at earlier hearings? That's the only reason I can think of that a judge might hesitate, but even then, plenty of people flake on court appearances.
He was. Thats why they just dismissed it. He made sure to appear until the assets were divided. As soon as he had the items he wanted, declared as his own, he decided to stop attending. I even tried to tell him that he still needed to attend. At one point, he said something to the effect of, “I don’t have to do anything, anymore.” I told him what the judge did with our case, after he failed to appear. He just shrugged it off. That was years ago.
You got played. There’s no way a judge can accept a settlement agreement when one party is not there to confirm that’s what they agreed to.
How can someone just say no or fail to show up to a divorce? If one party wants out, they're out, no?
Yeah, but that’s not a settlement, which is what OP tried twice. She needs to serve by publication and have a judge decide.
Oh okay so you can get divorced without both parties agreeing.