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[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

This song unironically got me through some very hard times. I love it so much. It hits so hard

[–] [email protected] 24 points 7 months ago

This is more like horny quarantine

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Data corruption, so I'm writing my own

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'd be interested in seeing that too, please

[–] [email protected] 30 points 7 months ago

You can really feel the anger in this.

Way to angry to be funny.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

That last paragraph reminds me when my anxiety had me at my lowest. Literally curled crying on the ground daily. Felt like I completely lost myself and had to reconstruct myself. I was clinging on for dear life. Literally every moment of holding on was a victory. Like the passage, I actually imagined having ropes to hold my mind together.

So glad that's behind me now. Despite the pain I feel now, it pales in comparison to that. Feels like I can face anything now.

Beautiful writing.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It's really tiring how the tankies here won't acknowledge that Biden stopped all the anti-trans legislation that was passed under his administration

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Gotta mogg the cissies

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Idk if any of this helps

It does. A lot. So many of your thoughts parallel my own perfectly, so it's nice to see it expressed.

I really wish we could just shapeshift.

One major issue for me is I really can't imagine myself as an old woman. I want to be a bearded old dude, so I don't want to get rid of my beard or detransition and have testosterone issues in my old age. Maybe it's just deep brainworms acting up considering how women are treated like garbage the more they age while men are treated like a fine wine idk. Maybe if I take your route, I'll figure out what I actually want. Maybe it wouldn't actually bother me.

But RIGHT NOW, the push to feminize is quite strong. I've still got like 3 decades before I'd consider myself an old man. Do I just take half measures and repress during that time? I don't know.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Literally like my favorite part of presenting femme

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

turns out the swap was based on vitamin d and taking that helped them stay more towards one identity

That's fucking wild

you measure these things you can find ways to avoid "swapping".

I don't want to avoid swapping all together because I like the expression, but having more control would be helpful.

Thank you so much cuddle

 

Miss the mask off bot

Miss the Overton window bot

Miss the sweet summer child bot

Miss the bots I don't remember

 

It was a good read. Not at all what I expected. There really wasn't any gender theory at all and no attempt justifying gender identity. It was just full throated support for all gender identities, which was nice.

I also found it really interesting how antiquated a lot of the language is after only two decades, but the message itself is at least as progressive as the conversations people are having now. There's such an emphasis on transness outside of binary trans people.

I feel like this understanding of gender would really cut out a lot of the bullshit gatekeeping truscum arguments out. A lot of truscum look at enby or GNC people and say, "you're just a man in a dress" to which I think Feinberg would reply, "Yes, and?" Men in dresses also have an outlawed gender expression which deserves defending. Considering how armed fascists keep showing up to drag events, I think this view has been vindicated.

I also find it interesting how s/he changes hir pronouns depending on the social context. To me, this level of fluidity acknowledges gender as a social manifestation as opposed to anything essential.

Anyway, I'd like to read more. I was turned to Marxism through history, so I'd like to read up on pre-modern queer history. When I'm arguing with people about gender, I always bring up the fact that gender expression has varied throughout history and there are lots of examples of gender outside of the binary; however, I don't actually have specific examples that I am really familiar with.

Could anyone recommend a book that goes over non-cis gender identities throughout history and the roles they played? I'd really prefer a central source that covers a lot of cases as opposed to a deep discussion of a single one.

Thanks, comrades

 

So I feel like I very very rarely identify my race one way or the other, but I notice people often apply labels depending on the whims of the conversation. People are not consistent with how they identify me. Sometimes I'm white and other times I'm not depending on whatever point is trying to be made.

I think it's weird because I was never treated like I was white by the white side of my family. It was always made apparent I wasn't part of that club. And the non white side of my family never treated me like I was white either.

But whenever I try to say I'm not white or relate to a PoC experience, I'm told that I'm "white passing"? Uh, first off, that's incredibly subjective and depends on the group. Yes, I have passed as white at times, but I've also been identified as PoC many times, both positively and negatively.

White passing? Sure wish that unhinged vet threatening my life while calling me a sand n*gger knew I was white passing. Boy, would he have been embarrassed.

Really feels like that Aesop fable with the birds and the beasts going to war. The birds ask what the bat is, and the bat says he's a beast. The beasts ask what he is, and he says a bird. This way he doesn't fight in the war, but he's not accepted by either group after they make peace.

Except in my case, nobody asks what I am, they just tell me I'm the other group lol.

Even my partner (pure blooded "legitimate" PoC) does this shit. Always tells me I'm basically White, but after Trump got elected, she said she was scared for my safety with the increase in racism in the country. I'm like, why? Shouldn't I blend in just fine?

Idk, this post got long. These people got me tilted, and I don't know where to post this.

 

Can't have that anymore because of woke

 

I'm a queer spirit warrior, and I need monsters to slay

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Goals (hexbear.net)
 

Sorceress Adel: Queer Icon? 🤔

 

And I say kill em all! (Slave owners)

 

Uhh, meteor hit here

 

I really liked Starship Troopers as a kid. Pretty sure I said it was my favorite movie for a time. Last year or so, I had the chance to watch it again with some friends, and I was excited because now I could watch it with my Adult Knowledge that it's actually a satire of fascism. I was honestly bored out of my mind, and I wanted to turn it off halfway through.

Because it's not really a typical satire, right? It's an example of a movie that a fascist society would make. This kind of necessarily means that the movie needs to be trite and shallow. Neither the characters nor plot is compelling. Because of this, the action sequences fall flat to me, too.

I watched robocop the day before, and I actually liked it way more than when I was younger. I can also enjoy other satire of fascism like Warhammer 40k which I think is ridiculous enough to be fun.

I don't know, it sucks for the people who genuinely uphold it as a fascist piece of art because... Damn, it's really childish and boring when taken at face value.

Anyone with me on this? I honestly found it disappointing.

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