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[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 minutes ago (1 children)

Three more cupboards gone! 🎉 Just four more to go. If I don't sell them soon they are going on the naturestrip with a "free" sign on them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 minutes ago

I've been playing the Marketplace tango all day today myself! Gosh, what I would do for a naturestrip outside my place so I could just unload stuff that won't move.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 42 minutes ago

My knees really hurt. I’ve done something to them but don’t know what

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 hours ago (3 children)

Wow. That was a shit fight.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

True. I felt really uncomfortable watching it. The Barrios v Ramos fight was awesome though, I really enjoyed that one. To me it was the fight of the day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

Agreed. It was pretty disappointing.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

I GOT MY CAAAAAAAAR!!!!

I need sleep before tonight lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 38 minutes ago

Woohooooo!!! Freedom!!! Especially out where you live right now it'll make such a difference. You should definitely take it for a nice long spin

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

You got the insurance organised?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago

Good stuff. Go rest up for tonight!

You’re going to have a big one tonight!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago

So cool. 🙂

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Dare I listen to the sci fi audio book again 🥵🌶️♨️🔥

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

My friend has helped me move out about 70% of my stuff (deadset legend).

But I have vastly underestimated how much stuff I have, and how much stuff I can realistically store at this next place...

I am REALLY working hard to keep myself together. Wow this is a huge huge downgrade. I really did not prepare myself for this. Even my friend looked at the other place and (reluctantly, after I was whinging) said "yeah... it's a place to crash at after a long day, not a home - it's a good thing you're only there for six months".

The plan will work, I just need to get everything out of here by the 19th. I will cull and sell further once it's been moved, none of it is too heavy.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

A wise man once said to me, "you can only do what you can do when you can do it." You did what you could, when you could. And you will continue to, that's the legendary achiever you are. That is enough. Even the wind can chip away at a mountain, the sea at a cliff. You've done awesomely for the time and financial constraints you have. It's not your forever story.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

yep... I will learn from this experience and look back on it - just another one of those Adulting things living with what you chose. I love your last sentence, it's not a forever story! I do need to remind myself of that from time to time. Thank you for the immensely kind words.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 hours ago

so many hugs

And let this new place be a home, just a little home, get to know your new neighbourhood and some local people. Try to keep some of your old habits. It will be fine. 😘

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

I’m really sorry. I know how it is to live somewhere you hate.

Re the fridge, I used to live somewhere the kitchen was so small it didn’t account for a fridge (literally no place for even a bar fridge - not built to accommodate one) so I kept my fridge nearby in the lounge. If it turns out that the fridge just doesn’t fit you can get creative or you could use a buy nothing/swap site to get a smaller one just to last you for the 6 months.

(If you have the money you can be a little lenient on convenience/tinned/fast foods just until you get out of there, or cook one pot food. Snacks help greatly.)

I’m sure Givit would take the big fridge, and perhaps the drawers(?). You might get a tax discount for the donations too.

This might not be legal in Australia bc food safety but in Slav countries the washing machine is in the kitchen with hot plates sitting on top because of space and also that’s where the plumbing allows it to be.

And this is hypocritical because I am a packrat/clutterbug when space allows - but I definitely did have ways of storing things/things I would cook or ways of doing things that helped me manage in a small place. Hit me up if you want some tips.

Just focus on survival for now, you’re in a great position to move in with family and save up for a strong return. It’s a lot easier to tolerate a bad situation if there’s an end date in sight.

Edit: I also know that Diabetes Victoria does pickups of clothes and other stuff, and there was a thing I used where you could download a prepaid postage label and mail donations to the Iconic.

However if it’s too much hassle or you don’t have time just do whatever you have to do. I should have thought to tell you this stuff earlier

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Thank you for the considerate and thought out reply - it's helped me see things in a bit better perspective and to work out what I can do within this space (and it's ok to stay in survival mode just a little longer). I do think I've been rather spoiled in my current place with so much built in storage that I've sort of sprawled over everywhere. Not having a linen cupboard is a big drawback but I think I can make it work.

I went back to my place and the fridge I have will JUST fit with about 1cm of space at the top and 2cm on the sides. My washing machine will also fit in the tiny closet (?!) that they have for it. I've culled my clothes as much as I could - I suspect some will just stay in boxes until I leave, especially the winter stuff. It's sad that I won't be able to cook as freely as I could but I guess it'll help me narrow down my focus to work and study (and a bit of fun - outside the home).

I think there's going to need to be a tip run for some things - an old rug, an old ironing board, an old POANG chair scratched up by a cat, an old swag that I've done my best to clean the mould off of but there are still visible marks... and an old feather doona - donated by friends, they shrank it in the wash and it's now badly stained anyway. RSPCA won't take it as it's got feathers in it :/

Plus this long couch nobody wants...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

That’s ok. The place where you live is a really important component of wellbeing.

I’ve got a strategy for lack of linen cupboard if you want it. Or a few. Depends on what you’re working with. A lot of these tips are about being flexible with what you have.

Make sure you leave enough space at the back of the fridge if you can! Top and sides I think is less important (I think) but it needs the air gap at the back for ventilation or could overheat.

The clothes could be shrunk down flat in space saver bags but it depends on the quality. Cheap ones reinflate themselves even when well sealed, saving no space -_-

And yeah. Hate to say it but if things aren’t in a condition anyone would take them they might have to go to landfill.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 41 minutes ago

I'm keen to hear your linen cupboard-less ideas! I've had the same experience with space saver bags back in Singapore when I was storing all my winter clothes from living in Australia - they'd just reinflate.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 hours ago (5 children)

🍒 The season has arrived 🍒

I just bought half a kilo of cherries for my pocket change. I am delighted

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

mangos are getting cheap enough so I can make some chutney 🥭

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Jake Paul v Mike Tyson is starting in next 10 mins on Netflix

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Got it on.

The stream was really struggling during the women’s match.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

The Puerto Rican was robbed.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Was that the one that ended in a split decision?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

No the women that was just on.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Oh yeah. Agreed. Serrano was much better I thought.

That gash on her eye was nasty.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (3 children)

I feel like the internet has turned really shit and at some point it’ll be so user unfriendly that it’s barely usable. I miss past eras of it (well the ones I’m old enough to have known) and the niches I like of current day are the ones most similar to that. I want to go back.

Lemmy is like a cosy comforting old school forum.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

The internet has become very easy to use, very. Except the ease is all in being fed answers, not in doing what we want for ourselves.

At the same time it has never been so unsafe tho it was always a bit unsafe. Stormfront has had a presence since the mid 1990s. The mormons put net nannies on member's computers so people couldn't search for independent information. etc

Search engines were pretty accurate and useful tho.

Newspapers and tv didn't have a presence yet.

It was easy to set up a chat board, you could just get ubuntu skins and go with a provider.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I miss when I scrolled I saw memes and not 4-year-old reposts. But I guess it’s good I don’t spend much time scrolling now.

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