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For me, a few come to mind:

  • "You're imagining everybody in this story way more attractive than they actually were."

It was posted somewhere on one of those spicy subreddits under some affair threesome story. And it sort if clicked with me. Like look around, normal people on the street don't all look like supermodels. And supermodels don't lurk around in reddit comment sections. It really put things into perspective for me.

  • "Life isn't short, it's the longest thing you'll ever do."

It is a bit uplifting to realize that no matter if you have bad or good period in your life, it is only a short chapter contained in the longest time period possible for you to experience.

There were a few others that I probably can't remember of the top of my head right now.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 58 minutes ago

"You can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just funny like peaches."

"Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there.

Yes, I know Mother Theresa isn’t well liked, and for good reason, but I like this quote. It shows you how framing your words and actions can impact how they are perceived by others. It makes you think.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Hope is not a strategy.

It's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago

"The purpose of discipline is to live more fully, not less"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago

Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.

Cynical is a word used by the frightened to describe the realistic.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

Actually this one and I just saw it on Lemmy too. As a life long Trek fan I have this quote in my head quite often.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

I love the French saying "C'est la vie".

Shuts down a lot of people nagging.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 15 hours ago

The only peace you will find at the top of a mountain is the peace you bring there with yourself.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 20 hours ago

Maya Angelou: "Do your best until you know better, then do better"

[–] [email protected] 32 points 22 hours ago

No one can change everything but everyone can change something.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Your dog might not be your entire life, but you are the entire life of your dog

[–] [email protected] 12 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Thats a good one, also along the lines "In our dogs eyes we are the immortal elves."

[–] [email protected] 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's a good one too.

Every time I think about how important we are to them and how loyal they are, I end up thinking about the "Jurrasic Bark" episode in Futurama 😭

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK3PWHxoT_E

[–] [email protected] 10 points 20 hours ago

Lol F you, I'm not clicking on that 😒

[–] [email protected] 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

That is exactly the same for your kids, it is not until their world expands a bit when they are 3-5YO; before that you are literally everything to them.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

Despair is typical of those who do not understand the causes of evil, see no way out, and are incapable of struggle.

-Vladimir Lenin

Very applicable today, there's no better time than the present to read theory and get organized. If anyone wants, I can post a short introductory reading list on Marxism.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Thank you. Been thinking about finding good leftist quotes to as my phone wallpaper. Are there more, shorter quotes?

I'm curious about the intro reading list. I've tried the manifesto and listened to some audiobooks by Dessalines. Are there newer articles that are recommended, that summarise/improve the pre-existing content? Especially ones that talk about how the things were/are to be applied.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 4 minutes ago)

Lenin is a huge yapper, he has tons of fantastic quotes. Another good one is "There are decades where nothing happens; and there are weeks where decades happen."

"Without Revolutionary theory, there can be no Revolutionary Movement."

It's time to read theory, comrades! As Lenin says, "Despair is typical of those who do not understand the causes of evil, see no way out, and are incapable of struggle." Marxism-Leninism is broken into 3 major components, as noted by Lenin in his pamphlet The Three Sources and Three Component Parts of Marxism: | Audiobook

  1. Dialectical and Historical Materialism

  2. Critique of Capitalism along the lines of Marx's Law of Value

  3. Advocacy for Revolutionary and Scientific Socialism

As such, I created the following list to take you from no knowledge whatsoever of Marxism, and leave you with a strong understanding of the critical fundamentals of Marxism-Leninism in an order that builds on itself over time. Let's get reading!

Section I: Getting Started

  1. Friedrich Engels' Principles of Communism | Audiobook

The go-to FAQ of Communism. Quick to read, and easy to reference if you ever want to clear up a misconception you see or have.

  1. Michael Parenti's Blackshirts and Reds | Audiobook

Breaks down fascism and its mortal enemy, communism, and their antagonistic relationship. Understanding what fascism is, where and when it rises, why it appears, and how to banish it forever is critical. It also helps debunk common anti-Communist myths, from both the "left" and the right.

Section II: Historical and Dialectical Materialism

  1. Georges Politzer's Elementary Principles of Philosophy | Audiobook

By far my favorite primer on Marxist philosophy. By understanding DiaMat first, you make it easier to understand the rest of Marxism. Marxist states have historically taught Dialectical and Historical Materialism before Political Economy for that very reason.

  1. Friedrich Engels' Socialism: Utopian and Scientific | Audiobook

Further reading on DiaMat, but crucially introduces the why of Scientific Socialism, essentially explaining how Capitalism itself preps the conditions for public ownership and planning by centralizing itself into monopolist syndicates.

Section III: Political Economy

  1. Karl Marx's Wage Labor and Capital as well as Wages, Price and Profit | Audiobook

Best taken as a pair, these essays simplify the most important parts of the Law of Value.

  1. Vladimir Lenin's Imperialism, The Highest Stage of Capitalism | Audiobook

Absolutely crucial and the most important work for understanding the modern era and its primary contradictions.

Section IV: Revolutionary and Scientific Socialism

  1. Rosa Luxemburg's Reform or Revolution | Audiobook

If Marxists believed reforming Capitalist society was possible, we would be the first in line for it. Sadly, it isn't possible, which Luxemburg proves in this monumental writing.

  1. Vladimir Lenin's The State and Revolution | Audiobook

Excellent refutation of revisionists and Social Democrats who think the State can be reformed, and not replaced.

Section V: Intersectionality and Solidarity

  1. Vikky Storm and Eme Flores' The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto | (No Audiobook yet)

Critical reading on understanding misogny, transphobia, and homophobia, as well as how to move beyond. Uses the foundations built up in the previous works to analyze gender theory from a Historical Materialist perspective.

  1. Frantz Fanon's The Wretched of the Earth | (No Audiobook yet)

Decolonialism is essential to Marxism. Without having a strong, decolonial, internationalist stance, we have no path to victory nor a path to justice.

Section VI: Putting it into Practice!

  1. Mao Zedong's On Practice and On Contradiction | Audiobook

Mao wrote simply and directly, targeting peasant soldiers during the Revolutionary War in China. This pair of essays equip the reader with the ability to apply the analytical tools of Dialectical Materialism to their every day practice, and better understand problems.

Congratulations, you completed your introductory reading course!

You are now educated on the fundamentals of Marxism-Leninism, and are equipped to do your own Marxist-Leninist analysis, comrade! Don't think you can stop here, though. To be a revolutionary is to be a constant student, to be industrious, to have solidarity, to test theory and meet it with practice. Our struggle is a winnable one!

Next, I would continue to read intersectional theory. Leslie Feinberg's Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue, J. Sakai's Settlers: The Mythology of the White Proletariat and Juno Mac and Molly Smith's Revolting Prostitutes are all excellent next steps in your journey.

"Everything under heaven is in utter chaos; the situation is excellent."

  • Mao Zedong

For your specific question regarding modern, easier to get into theory, I really love this person's essays on Marxism. They are more advanced, but focus on modern Marxist analysis. I think Why Do Marxists Fail to Bring the "Worker's Paradise?", Socialism Developed China, Not Capitalism, and Why Public Property? are 3 of the best modern essays and primers on Socialism. The first goes over the Materialist theory of Democratic Structures and how they can be built while critically analyzing AES through an AES-positive viewpoint, the second goes over misconceptions about the PRC, and the last helps explain why Marxists advocate for public ownership and central planning, and why Capitalism makes way for this through decentralized markets coalescing into monopolist syndicates.

Let me know if you have any questions!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

-Tom Waits !

[–] [email protected] 18 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

"How active you are in middle-age determines how active you will be able to be in old age. And that applies to any given decade of one's life.

Meanwhile, on Lemmy, we got people whining about sore backs and knees once they turn 30.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 19 hours ago

Work with elderly. Use it or lose it.

Amount of people who struggle to walk because they got in a wheelchair at some point is fucking high

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago

the ironic thing about common sense is that it is not that common.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 17 hours ago

Sometimes life's a bitch and you keep on living.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

"Growing hurts... but it's always worth the pain."

-My sister

[–] [email protected] 15 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

"Some people deserve to be punished." - Amos Burton (actor Wes Chatham), The Expanse season 2, in reference to an opportunist who had been enriching himself during a humanitarian crisis; comparing him to pimps that force kids and vulnerable people into prostitution.

Full quote(after beating up an uncooperative person and threatening him at gunpoint, then getting confronted about it)

I didn't kill him. Not yet. He's a bully, and where I come from, bullies take desperate young girls like your daughter and force them into prostitution. And when they finally get knocked up, they peddle them to johns who get off on that. After they have the kid, they push them right back out on the streets even before they have a chance to heal. And those kids, they use them, too. Some people deserve to be punished.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

The Expanse has so many memorable quotes.

  • "You're not that guy. I am that GUY."
    - Amos
  • "What is it you're think you're doing?" "WHATEVER I GOD DAMN LIKE."
    - Avaserala answering to the council
  • "You look like shit." "You look amazing."
    - Avaserala and Amos on Luna
  • "I'm just gonna take my pet nuke for a walk."
    - Miller on Ceres Station
[–] [email protected] 8 points 21 hours ago

And Amos was so great. Both the actor and the character. The books are possibly even better

[–] [email protected] 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

The whole poem by Dylan Thomas is fantastic but that line in particular often pops into my head during difficult times, like these.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

This is my favorite reading of it. Gives me goosebumps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESWzPhZWYeI

[–] [email protected] 10 points 21 hours ago

β€œBe excellent to each other”.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

"I'm a leaf in the wind."

Said by Wash the pilot in the movie Serenity. I tend to whisper that to myself when things aren't going my way and I need a reminder to just go with the flow.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 21 hours ago

I'm surprised that works for you, given what happens to him immediately after

[–] [email protected] 4 points 19 hours ago

I hope you haven't missed the series

[–] [email protected] 11 points 22 hours ago

The standard you walk past is the standard you accept

[–] [email protected] 5 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

"There's no such thing as retard/idiot proof, only retard/idiot resistant."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago

'A business should never buy idiot proof systems they should just stop hiring idiots"

[–] [email protected] 11 points 22 hours ago

β€œMay I have the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

it's a variation of the serenity prayer and it's helped me immensely for the last 40ish years

[–] [email protected] 5 points 19 hours ago

I don't have time for-/I didn't have time to-

What you are really saying is, "I didn't prioritize-" and that's OK sometimes. But be real with it. Sometimes it's OK to prioritize other things, but when you start rephrasing it this way, you realize that you may be putting yourself, your partner, your kids, your family, in second or even third place.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Reminds me of bash.org RIP https://bash-org-archive.com/?top

  • "Where ever you go, there you are"
  • "We have just enough fuel to make it to the crash site"
  • "Ruh-Rouh"
  • "Deny, Deny, Deny - Until you believe!"
  • "A Rule without Enforcement is just wishful thinking"
  • "When life gives you lemons- BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD"
  • "Ignoring a alert is the same as normalizing alerts, if it's important, don't ignore it, if it's not important don't alert for it"
  • "Follow the money" - Gripping Hand I think
  • "Premature optimization is the root of all evil" - Knuth maybe
  • "Once you know something is possible, doing it becomes a exercise in persistence."
  • "Science isn't what other people say, its what YOU can observe"
[–] [email protected] 9 points 22 hours ago

Happiness is for pussies.

Frankie from The Goon comics.

In my twenties life was a continual slog in a cycle of disappointment and desperation. That gave me something I could "steel myself" with.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago

"The sun will rise and set regardless of your life""

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

There's a guy on Youtube by the name of Chris Boden. Slightly controversial figure but he seems to mean well. A video of his that seemed to be venting/reconciling himself included the phrase

"So you wake up one morning in your impact crater and you start. Again."

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

"Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke

This was used at the end of the movie Jojo Rabbit (one of my favorite movies btw). I often remember this line when I feel like everything is going wrong. It helps me hold on to hope.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I give myself a "Dammit, Steve" from Life Aquatic maybe twice a week. I'm a woman, and my name isn't Steve.

I've also got a lot of mileage out of, "everyone knows when you make an assumption, you make an ass out of you and umption."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Similar with "get up, Trinity" from the matrix.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 21 hours ago

Oh nice, I knew "when you assume you make an ass of u and me"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

"The only person who won't fire you is you."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

"Silence deafens everything." At first it seems counterintuitive, but being silent can "deafen" those around you (or society) to an issue or problem.

And my friends dad commented on his wanderlust need : "It doesn't matter where you travel to, you will never get away from yourself"

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