I think it's wonderful that you're so passionate about the fediverse. However your main argument seems to be that Meta enriches the Fediverse with money.
But you're not addressing the fact that profit driven endeavours result in things like the fact that they broke the law to snoop on snapchat users.
Where does the push for profit stop? Why do you feel that the fediverse needs money and what alternatives have you looked at beside Silicon Valley?
There are things like communick and I'm a proponent of cooperatives, whereby you get XX people to contribute the amount to split the costs of a server, management, a domain and software development donations and as more people join, the cost is spread out more.
What is it exactly that Meta offer? Where do you think they'll invest that cooperatives can't?