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Trauma dumping unbeknownst to the other can actually have an effect on you even if it didn’t happen to you.
More so if it’s constant. She’s looking for validation or something. She’s got to change her actions or it’ll keep just repeating.
She’s also fallen into the soulmate trap as well and sometimes for her it’s easier believing in the fairytale than to wake up to reality.