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The mod also listed their own inactive community rather than the actually active trans communities for whatever reason. It's not a very good list of online spaces whatsoever

Homebrew vials last for around a year. Per my understanding they have higher concentrations than what you'll get from a doctor, but even so I'll bet they last several months

:/ How very ungenerous of them (not surprised)

Hexbear is a very toxic instance with mods that allow their users to harass others. Both hexbear and .ml are filled with tankie users and mods, which is another reason to avoid those places

While waiting in line to buy some clothes, a woman wanted to chat about how long the line was taking, and she interacted with me as though I were a normal woman - there wasn’t a hint of stigma, curiosity, etc.

That's great! <3 I'm not out so not much to add, other than I hope to reach the same stage one day

Why not share c/trans over c/transgender? It's way more active.

Lemmy.ml

hexbear.net

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I used gel for half a year and it was somewhat stressful and so I made the move to injections.

The first injection was very scary for me, but I've been doing them for a while now and it's starting to get pretty routine. It's so much easier in the long run :) I just need to remember what day to take the injection, as opposed to having to apply gel at a specific time several times a day.

I do sub-q een. Initially I had some reaction to one of the ingredients, but since figuring out what I was reacting to by trying different esters it has been smooth sailing.

I wouldn’t feel like I was “betraying trans folks”

I know you know this, but I just wanted to affirm that your journey is your own and you've not betrayed anyone

No

sounds like you have a lot to learn yourself

I had a lot of doubts to begin with. Part of what helped me was learning that it's not useful to think of words like trans as prescriptive, but as descriptive. I started only thinking in terms of benefits and making myself comfortable.

I want to wear different clothes and otherwise present myself differently because I've always wanted to? Then I'll do that.

I tried HRT and I liked the mental and physical effects? Then I'll continue with HRT.

I have no connection to my name and prefer a female coded name? Then I'll use a new female coded name.

Etc. etc.

Trans is just a word and the more important part is making yourself happy.

Edit: The word trans is useful because it describes a bunch of the stuff I'm doing, and it makes me happy when I see things that are trans supportive. I think it's also worth remembering that gender is a spectrum and that being transgender is defined as not identifying with the gender you were assigned at birth/not being cis, and therefore includes a lot of identities and ways of expressing yourself.

No one else gets to go inside your head and tell you how you feel, so it's only up to you to decide whether or not you are trans. Honestly you can do a bunch of gender non-conforming things and even do all sorts of transitiony things and stuff associated with being trans and then just decide to "not be trans" if you feel like it, even if others might describe you as such. What do they know anyways? Most people haven't really put their gender identity under the looking glass or even so much as read about the subject.