Had a very similar experience with the biggest trans discord in my country as well.
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I now hav an appointment with an hrt person, at a place recommended to me by the local trans community. Hope it will go well.
Connecting with the locals is really important, does not solve everything, but for example I, without them, would have needed several more months till I tried again at a doctors apoointment.
I got identified as a girl a lot in coubtries like that, was kinda nice, even when I thought I was cis.
Yeah, but that also kinda applies for she/hers, look at me, for example. So it should hopefully not weight in too much.
Also most of the "No" people use he/him, she/her are not even shown on the graph.
Thanks for doing this, it's very interesting.
We have comparatively few transmen it seems. 3% of the"yes vote" use he/him pronouns, in comparison, 42.4% use she/her.
isn't jesus divinity hotly debated? Like I am not christian, but I thought that therewas some disagreement there.
I feel better than yesterday, I talked to some local tran women, and they gave me the adresses of some docs who are not assholes, but I am still kind of done from yesterday. I don't have much time, to arrange something, but I need some time to recover from the last attempt
Yeah, am wondering what the point of medical laws is, if the doctor can just reject you based on vibes, if you insist on the legally recognised standard of care.
Like why have pro-trans legislation, if it doesn't matter, if there is no reason to not just ignore it.
The doctor refused to treat me because of my "negative attitude".
I was negative cause he suddenly wanted psychological attests, that are neither recommended to demand, nor legally required.
Now I am sad, and unsure where to go next.
I think I have been very dysphoric lately, and it's possibly because I have done very few gender affirming things. I just am too nervous to be perceived.