Probably, most of the ones on Lemmy.world are on the covert side, using dogwhistles and subtle language, to convey their points that most other people, mods included usually miss.
Blazingtransfem98
joined 2 weeks ago
They seem quite proud of it too, this was their response when questioned about it:
https://reddthat.com/comment/13725720
I don't think any of them compare to lemmy.world. I've seen people openly right wing there, and I've seen them downvote people for no apparent reason other than being openly trans. I've been trying to report these incidents when they happen but I feel like it's useless since they never do anything, even when the people are homed on their instance.
I actually saw this guy replying to one of my comments in [email protected] hard to believe he isn't banned sitewide there. They usually ban alt-right fash like him pretty quickly.
Wasn't even a BBEG, was just a random NPC in the party that party members would make fun of for being "a man pretending to be a woman". The character remained in the party through the whole campaign and only served the purpose of being the butt of transphobic humor. I don't even think they had good stats or abilities.
It always felt uncomfortable when they'd do it. I felt unsafe when they would do it. I bet if they saw me now they'd make those same jokes about me directly. Probably also mock me for pronouns. They weren't good people, I don't know why I hung out with them as much as I did. I guess I just wanted to feel like I fit in with others. Well I'm glad I never came out to them even when I found out, that would've been really bad for me, instead we just quietly went our separate ways.
I don't think it's possible, I tried with some people who I thought were close friends but when they found out I was trans they disowned and bullied me.
I'm more of a beer gal myself but I could still go for some right about now. I really need to take the edge off.
I used to have a group I'd play DnD with, it was fun. We don't talk anymore though because they are right-wing assholes and would never accept me as a trans girl, since they openly made fun of transgender people. There was an NPC character in one of our campaigns which was a "man dressed as a woman" who would always get mocked for it.
Doing okay I guess. Got harassed on Twitter yesterday by some right wing chud claiming that I'll always have male genitals (really hope he's wrong and I'll be able to get surgery in the future 😭 )
Seeing them banned can feel even more cathartic. The trolls on Lemmy.world don't care if you downvote them, they'll just downvote you back. Some of them probably have multiple accounts and will just downvote you twice, while upvoting themselves. On blahaj and instances like it, there won't be games, they just get banned.
Maybe, that's weird, it's still up on my instance and they've been still able to respond
https://discuss.online/comment/11427017