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Every account you ever had, every post/comment you ever posted, now has your real name, a photo of you, and your address, all just magically show up on the webpage right next to each of your posts/comments (also, no "hacking" could hide the info). All deleted posts/comments are magically restored and nothing you do (short of permanently shutting down the website and physical destruction of the servers) can delete them. (Any edits would still show every change you made.) How fucked are you?

And don't think about changing your name, or moving, all this info updates in real time. (for "magic" reason)

(You also cannot delete any future posts.)

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Meh. My real world would know what my digital world already knows, that I'm much more of a nerd than I portray myself as.

It's not because I purposefully hide it. It's because it's not a topic that is interesting to anyone in my real world circle of friends. I don't have real world friends who want to talk about Linux, and Open Source, and retro-video games, and all of the other stuff that I ramble on about online in forums where the peeps who understand me all hang out.

There's probably some very surprising porn habits in there as well that my real world friends and family would have NO CLUE about, but c'est la vie.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 3 days ago (1 children)

No one would notice or care… 1/10 🙂

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Same. The most surprising thing might be that I even have accounts online. And that I love pictures of scrungy cats.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I love pictures of scrungy cats.

Honestly, who doesn't?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Meh. Only the NSFW stuff I guess, but nothing that I wouldn't tell someone if they really wanted to know.

But I stay off Facebook because I'm not interested in having an online presence or profile, so I guess in the sense of suddenly being thrust into that world at all, not related to the content I've posted just the literal online presence - that would bother me more, and the threat of violence or crime from being more visible like that.

[–] [email protected] 53 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I tend to enjoy being devil's advocate on controversial subjects so I'd score a 9/10 fucked through sheer misinterpretation

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

Absolutely same. I actually pretended to be a communist when I was in high school.

Add in a few remarks on porn sites, I'm pretty sure I'd have to change my name, my face, and go live in Brazil or something

[–] [email protected] 41 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

My real name is so generic, even if I doxxed myself you wouldn't find me anywhere.

Everyone I know IRL already knows my online identity.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I've got you now, John Smith!

127.0. 0.1

Scared yet??!?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

I worked with a John Smith who came from Chicago. He would joke about hiding from the mob. At least I think he was joking...

[–] [email protected] 37 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I spoiled a part of Infinity War back in the day, and I'd expect a 305 lb katana wielding fedora wearer to appear out of the shadows at my door. Those dudes were pissed and drunk me didn't even know I did it until the mod that banned me for a month pointed it out.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You could take permanent sanctuary in a health food store or a gym.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago

Yeah, but then I'll be in a health food store or a gym.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

you did WHAT

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Meh. A whole bunch of cringe posts from twenty years ago will show how much I've grown since I was 19. Some more recent arguments I got tired of will rear their ugly heads. But I generally try to be the same person online as offline, and that person isn't particularly controversial, at least around the circles I run in.

But there would be a lot of people who would be in bodily danger.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Nobody cares about growth. Cancelled!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

I'm not. My real, full name is already on certain web accounts right next to "Tattorack", which is the online handle I use everywhere.

Im not fucked because nobody gives a shit about me. If people actually start looking me up, it'll probably create the most traffic to my art pages I've ever had.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

Not fucked. Of course I have some cringy stuff on MySpace from when I was in my early teens. But generally speaking, over the last two decades or so I don't post anything I wouldn't be OK with everyone finding out about

[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Whether or not I am anonymous does not change how/what I post. I also never delete any so nothing changes regarding that too. Cringe to be acting uncivil because you have a mask.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

You should never post anything online that you wouldn't be comfortable shouting at the top of your lungs in the middle of your hometown.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Facts. I've been posting exclusively as Postmortal_Pop on every platform I've been on since 2010. If someone wants me, they'd be downright incompetent if they couldn't find me. That's my name as much as my real name.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not very, unless the nazis I'm reminding people that every day is punch one of manage to wheezingly waddle up from the basement and attempt to do something about it despite my genes being more pure norse whitey aryan than they could ever dream of so attempts of me life would just be another proof of my superior intellectual reasoning to their simplistic racism tribalism.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Depending on country. In some, the nazis are already in government.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Embarrassed, but not fucked.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Yeah, some suspicions about my level of motivation at work would be confirmed, and my perfectly adequate but kinda basic neighbors might realize it's not just my being awkward AF that keeps me from hanging out more, but that's probably the worst of it. Half the things I delete are to make it slightly harder to dox me than it is now, and most of the rest are things I've said elsewhere but don't feel like defending point-by-point in that particular thread.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

Noooo it was sooo difficult to find how to delete my Facebook account. With warnings like "people losing Facebook often loose their social life, are you really sure?". And now my nearly empty page is back you say? Cringe.

But I'm not fucked, I try to treat people online like I treat people in real life, like I want people to treat me. I'm not scared of a heated discussion but I prefer to stay civil. So if people want to look me up, that's fine, I make great coffee.

I only have issues with people who do not respect my boundaries so I prefer to keep them out of my life. But my mom already knows where I live, so still no harm done when my address is posted online.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There's a reason why I post under my real name and never delete anything. Because your scenario has a high probability of really happening one way or another. That way I'm more conscious of the stuff I post.

A woman I know had an anonymous blog where she posted stuff about her kids without mentioning any names or showing any photos in an effort to protect them. My wife, who only knows her from her un-anonymised blog found that other blog and recognised her really quickly.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Yup, what people don't get about online privacy is that it's not about hiding things, but knowing what is exposed. If you voluntarily expose something on one account that might get tracked back to you.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Ehhh, I would be shunned by 2 or 3 family members, which might be a net benefit. I hope the former Oklahoma governor's daughter doesn't come after me. I'm more scared of that waxen pale nepobaby more than anyone else. She's got the money and time to cause havoc, the others do not.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Depends on the statute of limitations on drug trafficking I guess.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Not all that much, as I already use my real name. I tend to only post things that I believe in, and I've never really been one to hide my feelings from people.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'd be fine. I've always been aware of the tenuous nature of being anonymous online.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The only thing that would change is that people are gonna know I'm a bit less straight than I say that I am... Though I generally live life/post things, knowing it can never be deleted once it's posted on the internet so... Not much would change really.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Just me? Or everyone, everywhere, all at once?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

All that typing doesn't amount to a hill of beans in this crazy world. Someday you'll understand that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

doubt something would happen

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

I'm sure I'd be screwed. Just by the nature of the internet, someone in the various posts would find something that would enrage them enough to hunt me down and throw a cocktail at my house. Even if only one person in a million is insane and bent on revenge, overall I have enough posts that they'd come in contact with it. I'd for sure lose my job, since we have seen it happen on social media sites with folks' real names attached.

Luckily, most of the comments I've made have been on sites that have permanently shut down, so I would escape the worst of my years becoming public knowledge.

Now, if it wasn't just me, I'm sure I'd be lost in the relatively blase nature of my comments.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I should be reasonably ok... I think. Sure, there were a few instances where I, uh... let the internet anonymity get to my head, and... used sarcasm. But it's past me, I swear. Reckless acts of a younger man.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But it's past me, I swear. Reckless acts of a younger man.

Yeah, it's crazy how much a person can change in 20 minutes.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

Did you know you can get someone's address by typing in their email? Fuck data brokers. We need to outlaw their entire business model.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Ya'll are gonna have to travel pretty fucking far to fight me. Welcome to the Tundra.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Let's go mfer. I said some cringy shit on Facebook when I was a teenager but I'll own up to em. Largely, I stand by my opinions, doesn't matter if my name is attached to them or not, I say what I feel and what I feel doesn't change based on whether I have a name tag on or not.

I might find myself suddenly on some governmental lists of some interest, especially considering how vocally I have been speaking out against our incoming government, but other than that? I wear my past with pride. I'll admit when I was wrong and stand by my opinions that still deserve them, and chuckle over some bad takes from the past, but I feel no shame in this arena.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

I stand behind everything I've ever said. I've been posting for years with the mindset that what OP is describing will some day be reality. I might not be correct about everything but I've always been honest. I look forward to that day and all the hypocrites being exposed.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

I am like this in public and in person. No impact.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I'll have some explaining to do, but I guess since everyone will have their dirty laundry out in the open, people will get quite more open-minded.

Also, people I care about know everything anyway.

I'll be okay.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

I don't think I've really ever deleted anything that wasn't just a simple mistake (e.g. duplicate post or whatever) so I'm not worried about much there

I guess some people in my life might not realise quite how left wing I am, but I've not really kept it under wraps to anyone that's asked.

I assume I'll probably get targeted more by identity thieves and similar, which ultimately will probably be the biggest thing to fuck me over about the whole situation

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Based on real life experiences with having random guys try to hit on me, I'd probably get a lot of guys DMing me.

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