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[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

I don't tip as well. But I live in a civilised country where everyone gets at least a tolerable minimum wage. No one is paying me extra money just for doing my job. So I won't either. If they want more, they need to talk to their employer. It's not my responsibility.

Would I live in the United States of Idiots though, where a severe lack of ethical economic behaviour is observable, I indeed would tip the waiters, as that's sadly their financial lifeline.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 days ago (4 children)

They missed a step. "Waiter is paid below the already sad minimum wage because tips are somehow factored into their paycheck. "

Also don't forget the folks working in the back of the house. Tip if you're able, despite our shitty system.

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[–] [email protected] 235 points 4 days ago (32 children)

Who's the cheap one in this equation?

.... the customer who is paying the owner of the restaurant for the food AND is obligated by social convention to pay extra to the waiter who is underpaid.

or

... the restaurant owner who doesn't mind living in a world where we have normalized underpaying restaurant workers to the point where we pass down that responsibility to the customer who is already paying for the food.

Pay your workers a proper wage and get rid of the idea of tipping.

[–] [email protected] 74 points 4 days ago (18 children)

Don't like tipping? Protest the policies by not going to restaurants, dont shove it on the workers who are stuck in the system.

The owner is 100% happy you came to pay him and not the waiter he didnt wanna pay anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 4 days ago

Tipping is fine, but as in "keep the change", not "we need to change this tipping culture"

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[–] [email protected] 151 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Replace waiter with "CEO" and you begin to understand why socialists believe what they do

[–] [email protected] 61 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Except instead of 25%, it’s 250%.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

And the company owners do not walk or have to deal with customers.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

tipping should be illegal because it leads to underpaid workers. but until tipping becomes illegal, you are a fucking asshole if you don’t tip. you’re not sticking it to the man, you’re just shitting on a minimum wage worker because m-muh principles. grow up or move to a country where they don’t tip

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (6 children)

I hate that argument though. "You shouldn't enjoy things because you should pay more than the advertised, because that's just how things are". Change doesn't happen unless change happens. Basically, if you want tipping culture to change, you actually have to start changing tipping culture.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Here in Europe, waiters actually get a living wage, and still we're expected to tip??? Like yo fuck that! I never go to regular restaurants unless it's with a work colleague that refuses to go to the canteen. Oh my sweet canteen, so cheap yet plentiful, satisfying my stomach, mind and wallet, a true blessing.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Fully agree with this but the problem is that restaurant owners pay their staff shit

Give proper wages to servers and the tipping can be history

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 days ago (4 children)

MA had a ballot initiative that would have gradually brought the minimum tipped wage in line with the state's minimum wage over the next 5 years or something.

Restaurants posted signs at their door to vote NO and that 90 percent of tipped workers opposed the bill.

A bartender I know told me that I should vote no because if it passed then restaurants would have to reduce headcount and servers who were bad at their jobs would get paid just as well as servers that offer good service.

So it seems like the restaurants just threatened people with losing their jobs and so they voted NO and convinced others to do the same.

The measure didn't pass.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

servers who were bad at their jobs would get paid just as well as servers that offer good service.

Black servers would be paid as well as white servers, servers whose chefs fucked up would be paid as well as lucky servers, mice would chase cats and the world would turn inside out!

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 days ago

I waited tables for years. (I was good at it, and even helped train everyone at a new restaurant.) Hourly pay would have definitely lowered my wage, but it's still better than tipping. It'd be cool to get hourly wage, or even commission, so that your pay isn't based on people's whims.

servers who were bad at their jobs would get paid just as well as servers that offer good service.

(Note: I use the general "you" a lot. You're just repeating what someone else said, I assume you don't have any wait staff working for you personally.) You can fire people for being bad at their jobs. Why do you have bad staff working for you, tips or no? How about: Unattractive people will get paid just as well as traditionally attractive people. Minorities will get paid just as well as whites. Your salary doesn't hinge on whether you can sneak extra stuff to your tables without your boss finding out or putting up with sexual harassment. Salary means that my paycheck comes from the restaurant and I don't have to try to balance the interests of the people paying me against the restaurant.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

Yeah all of that is what is known in the business as propaganda. The more money you have the more propaganda you can put out and restaurant businesses have a lot of spare money because they don't pay their workers shit.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 4 days ago (21 children)

I also don't tip

Because I don't go to restaurants with servers

I vote with my wallet that the whole concept is stupid, I hate paying 20% for someone to be fake nice and move food 10 feet

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 4 days ago

No, it's because their manager who manages the business(hypothetically) isn't paying them.

[–] [email protected] 75 points 4 days ago (44 children)

Tipping is bullshit. Restaurants should pay their workers properly. But I’m not gonna punish the server for that. She has zero control over that.

If I can’t afford to tip then I just don’t go to the restaurant. People would prefer to make up excuses for why they don’t wanna tip and how that doesn’t make them an asshole while taking huge huffs of their own farts. If you don’t like the tipping culture just go to a fast food restaurant or make your own food. Why is everybody such whiney bitches about everything?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (13 children)

Doesn't get paid properly to deliver a service you're relying on.

Tipping culture is stupid, but that doesn't mean you get to fuck over workers by refusing the tips they rely on. If you want to fight that fight, take it up with the business or your legislator, ya cheap asshole.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Restaurant owners everywhere would be so happy to know you think the customers are the ones fucking over the workers

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I believe I'm a somewhat generous tipper.

Just today I rounded up a 23 up to 25. Euros that is. And I'm in Finland.

This is considered a generous tip, most don't tip at all.

When I drove a taxi basically if I had a shift on Christmas eve, then I'd get tips. Otherwise it was like at most 3-5% of riders who gave tips. And this was back in oughts, when people actually used cash. (I literally never had someone tip me on a card when driving a taxi.)

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago

I'd rather eat a frozen pizza and drink beer in the basement for 1/6th the price.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Just like groceries don't include tax in the advertised price. they system is designed to screw us over.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Just like groceries don’t include tax in the advertised price.

Nah, that's just in America, because Americans are dumb. Tipping doesn't exist here BTW, because it's idiotic and why would we do that.

(if Americans aren't dumb, why did they vote for Trump twice?)

(I finally found an upside to the Trump presidency!)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Waiter deals with the general public. They deserve it

[–] [email protected] 41 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I mean, they deserve to make a liveable wage regardless of whether someone tips.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Their (livable) wage is supposed to be payed by their employer. The customer is not their employer.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago

I always leave a tip, but asking ME to pay more for someone ELSE’s rudeness is insane.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Ya'll are all wrong. Tipping is to compensate the 2 dollars they make an hour. It's a shitty system, but that's the deal. If you don't want to tip then don't go eat at a restaurant that supports that system. It's not some luxury add-on for excellent service (though it can be). It is purely to make up for the extremely low wages. Does anyone remember the rest of the dialog in this scene?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That only applies in shit states that allow that wage fuckery. There are several states where the minimum doesnt change based on whether the job receives tips.

This is one of the problems with the argument online. Too many off us have different realities around them. Where I'm at they get a pretty healthy minimum (~$17/h) + tips.

Being a waiter at a decent restaurant is quite lucrative in my area. I don't want to change that for the person, after all, the waiter is getting a cut off every check. It's like a form of profit sharing! However, I'd rather just have the prices on the menu reflect reality and the business handle all the dispersion of pay without me and my feelings getting manipulated for an extra 5% (after the previously established 18% tip standard was deemed too low by people who get tipped that for decades.)

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Makes me glad I live in a state that got rid of the tipped minimun and just has one across the board minimum wage.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Is that really what you think is all they do? I've run restaurants and they're like what nurses are to hospitals, the ones doing most of the work. Everything from cleaning the restaurant to stocking everything, keeping the cooks happy and helping in any way they can

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