You can accept it and still struggle. Acceptance is a loopy roller coaster process just like any self-improvement or healing process. You're incredibly valid and I hope time helps you grow to accept yourself as such. (Much love <3)
Thank you <3 I'm really grateful to have discovered this wonderful community and I definitely wouldn't be in this position of acceptance without it.
there's nothing wrong with love ๐
I am attracted to my estranged uncle.. ๐ท I haven't told anyone IRL, just that I'd like to get in contact with him, but no one can really reach him. He chose to distance himself from the family and I would honour that request if it wasn't for the fact that I also want to distance myself from the family and I feel like we'd have a lot in common. He only knew me as a kid, at which point I hadn't really become myself yet, so yea.
Thank you for sharing. It's reassuring to know it doesn't appear to be that uncommon. I hope someday you get to reconnect with your uncle <3
For those who love their family a whole lot.