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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I’m curious, does anybody else sit down in the shower. (That’s right not a typo. Sitters, not shitters)

This started for me when I was younger, usually when I was nursing a gnarly hangover. The warm water beating down on me was a solace and sitting just made it feel all the more comforting. Though I’m sure it’s not the most hygienic.

Over the years, it's evolved into a ritual, now my preferred way to unwind and relax. So much so, I’m building a concrete bench seat in the shower, with a custom shower head above it, as part of our bathroom renovations. (Similar to the pic)

I'm curious if anyone else has a similar routine. Do you find it therapeutic too? Any particular reason why you started?

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Lemmy needs a hide option. I am not a shower sitter but I do not want to downvote to get it off my feed. You guys will now live at the top of my feed out of respect for your life choices.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Thankyou for the honour. 🙏

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Since I was a kid. You’re the first person I’ve ever heard talk about it. I guess I always thought it was super weird so i never told anyone.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yeh. I’m Shocked here tbh. I feel like I’ve found my people. I was always told it was super weird too!

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There are dozens of us!

Edit: Damn it, scrolled down and saw someone beat me to this. There are clearly too many of us.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Why can’t you both say it?

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I used to straight up nap in the shower as a kid. My parents thought I was jerking off but I was legitimately just taking a power nap.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Dude. Same. I would sometimes make a little sleep mask out of a wash cloth.

I just let my parents think that. Somehow, yanking it seemed less weird.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Holy shit are we the same person?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Jeez I read shower SHITTERS and came to laugh at all of the weirdos. Thankfully I don't have to write off humanity as early as usual this morning.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Give it time.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Sometimes you just gotta sit, it’s relaxing, it’s not quite a full bath scenario but not quite a shower, a nice middle

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Generally only when I'm hungover.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I do it occasionally. Bad headache or hangover. That'll usually do the trick.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly the same. Usually standing up, but if it's a really bad morning I sit down.

More often than not I also close the drain so it becomes a bath and suddenly I'm stewing in my own shame and regret.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yes. Often. I love it, it feels…. Safe? Same as you, started doing at as a part of the hangover ritual; now I do it a couple times a week. It’s relaxing. Head hanging down, warm water dripping down my nose. Comfy.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Sure, best way to cry in the shower is in a heap in the tub.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I had an ex-gf that would sit down for showers when possible, and sometimes fall asleep lol

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Me too haha

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

People don't do this sometimes??? I enjoy doing this as often as possible. I started doing it when I had some headaches and didn't feel like bending backwards (tall guy problems in a small shower) so I would just sit and let the water flow over me like I was being blessed by the water gods of headache removal. Haven't looked back since, it's so damn soothing!

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yup, it's like meditation for me. Helps me unwind.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It’s like the best combination of a shower and a bath! I also started when I was younger… I had to get up really early in the morning and the only way I could get myself out of bed was to lay down and basically sleep in the shower. It was soo relaxing but eventually woke me up enough for the day. I still do it sometimes when I really want to relax or am very tired.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Best way to unwind. Best way to get over a headache or hangover. I like to go from as hot as I can handle down to as cold as I can handle & alternate for as long as I feel I need. Magic.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Sometimes when everything gets too overwhelming I'll sit in the shower

It's relaxing but I lose track of time pretty easy and the amount of hot water I have is pretty limited

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

If I'm sitting in the shower I'm probably in a depression spiral

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

:(

Try it when your feeling good. ✌️💛

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

There are dozens of us! Dozens!

I just sit right on the bathroom floor. Don't even care. I'm the one who cleans that bathroom, I know that shits clean, yanno?

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Both my knees need replacing and my left hip is shot at too I have a shower seat so that I can shower when they hurt. I do find it's relaxing and many a time I've been close to falling asleep

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I’ve fallen asleep too often. I always worry I’d drown. But hasn’t happened yet. 🤷‍♂️

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I used to. More of a kneeling kind of position though. No idea why I did it... Just did it once, must have liked it, did it the next day, and repeat.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Kneeling hey? That sounds painful!

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I couldn't think of the word I was looking for when I wrote this. More of a crouch. IDK why I said kneel.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago
[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I haven’t done it in a while but when I did it was a way to relax and unwind a bit.

Now though I haven’t had the luxury of time to do so.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I recommend taking a moment to do it today ! Give yourself the pleasure.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

I’d love to, but I don’t have the time to do so in my morning shower. If I tried I’d be late to work.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Add in an evening shower before sleep to unwind.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

It seems like it would be calming. Though I feel the tub gets a bit gross for this.

Any chair recommendations for tubs? What about shower heads that work best to not drown you?

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Don’t know chairs. I just sit cross legged on the floor. Madly the shouter head backs me to the side, find a sweet spot. And all good.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Sitting in the shower is my daily decompression ritual after work. I have no idea when it started but it usually leads me to waste a lot of water.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It’s not a waste. It’s medicine for your mental health.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

You don't want to know how I misread that title. 😶

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I somehow read it as "Waffle Stompers"...

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Found Alex Goldman’s burner account

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Who is Alex Goldman? I tried googling. Nothing stuck out.

[-] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

He used to host an awesome podcast called Reply All. See https://gimletmedia.com/amp/shows/reply-all/gmhr36.

ALEX GOLDMAN: Sitting in the shower is the best thing in the world. PJ: You just sit down in the shower? ALEX GOLDMAN: Yeah, criss cross applesauce. ALEX BLUMBERG & PJ: (laughing)

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is so wild. A few hours ago, based on past feedback, I seriously thought I was the only one.

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