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I have a very powerful sense of smell.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

I was telling an ex about smelling my coworker’s fear all day. He had a crush on me (it was a call center, so not an especially professional environment), and we had to share my cubicle for training, and he was just pouring out anxiety sweat. My ex had no idea what the fuck I was talking about and I’ve never met someone else who can identify the emotions that a person has by their sweat.

Saying someone “can smell fear” is a normal thing that comes up a lot in media, so I assumed it was also normal to notice. Apparently not. I’ll take all of the help my autistic ass can get in iding others’ emotions though

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Oh hey, I remember Mythbusters did a thing on that years ago, got a professional sniffer in who was almost consistently able to detect samples of fear sweat out of a lineup of sweat samples. So yeah, fear smell is absolutely a thing if you know what to sniff for.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

You got me down a rabbit hole, but it’s now been officially supported that people subconsciously react to smells, so I’m really curious if more people can train themselves to smell it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I always thought when people talked about "smelling fear" it was just a poetic way of saying it was obvious that someone was afraid. I've certainly never been aware of picking up on a person's emotions via scent or heard someone say that they've done that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Can you smell it on yourself? Like, do you find that your sweaty clothes smell the same after a run and, say, a presentation (or something else that gives you anxiety/scares you)? I think it’s most noticeable with my own sweat, but fear/anxiety sweat smells bad to me in a way that normal body odor or exercise sweat don’t.

Sex sweat also smells very different, but that’s normally more pleasant to me than the others. I haven’t noticed a specific smell of aggression or any other kind of sweat though.

Edit: I think you’re right that “smelling fear” is metaphoric, but I did not realize that until I started talking about it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

No, I can't say I've ever noticed a particular scent of anxiety on myself.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Maybe check it out next time, if you have a good sense of smell. Apparently it’s something people react to subconsciously, so I wonder if it can be trained.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That's crazy to me. I'm just learning all this. I barely have a sense of smell so distinguishing between different kinds of sweats is probably entirely out of my reach. I'll try and train it still

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It smells kind of sour in my experience and i believe I've been able to smell it in my childhood pet bird as well as my wife

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, it smells like battery acid to me. It’s fucking wild if birds use the same chemical signals as we do

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Wow I can't believe other people smell the battery acid too. Maybe im not hallucinating

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

This is kinda interesting to me. I can pretty easily notice it with myself (If I'm scared for a presentation or calling with somebody). But I don't think I've every been able to identify it in somebody else

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I probably only noticed it in others because my sister and I shared clothing growing up and she is also an anxiety-ridden mess

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm thinking maybe I was that anxiety-ridden mess in the past, and that's why I couldn't smell it on anybody else. My own smell was too noticeable, whoops.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I mean, me too! At least apparently nobody else can smell it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Luckily! Although I’m never certain people notice it, but just don’t say anything…

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Now I had the opposite thought because I thought it was normal for people and I was the only one who couldn't lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

legit and respect, gotta take all the advantages you can get.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 months ago (2 children)

They do release formic acid which smells rank. But I've only ever smelled it from a large pile of dead ants. Not a few walking around outside or in a house.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

If there's a food source they're all over, it will smell like that even when they leave.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Counterpoint, formic acid is delicious, it reminds me of malic acid, like apples.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Worst.

X-Men mutation.

Ever.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Worse than the girl who kills people by a touch?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago
  • Suddenly makes a game of “tag” way more high-stakes—and FUN!

  • Don’t have to feel guilty about boiling your lobsters alive.

  • Ticks and mosquitoes? Never an issue.

I’ll admit it makes petting zoos a tragic affair, but what the hell good is “smelling” ants?

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Can I smell ants? I feel like I would have noticed if I could...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

And you try don't get too close and inhale it

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I can smell them when they're dead. Otherwise, not usually?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You have a powerful sense of smell, I sense a powerful smell, we are not the same.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What I dealt, you must also have smelt

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

i only found out they had a smell a couple years ago, and i'm in my 30s. not because i can't smell them though, but just because i hadn't noticed it before.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I can only smell those flying ants that come out during the rains. That sweet sticky smell is another type of horror.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

What the hell? You all need Jesus.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

They don't smell AWFUL per say, they just have a very particular smell.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Yeah... I can barely smell at all. Even normally strong smells like that of the urine of an unfixed male cat aren't particularly impactful to me. I wouldn't have even considered the potentiality that ants have a distinctive smell in spite of being aware that they use pheromone trails for navigation.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You got me. I snorted ants and now they are tickling my brain

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Definitely. Formic acid.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

U can taste the ants

tHe SucCuLeNt FlAvOr

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Huh didn't know other people couldn't smell ants but for me I find i have to get close and sniff them to get a cent I also get the same cent from dead spiders and I wouldn't call it offensive but it is quite distinct so it gets a huh out of me every time I catch the cent

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

But... How do you even know you can smell ants? Why did you try it? Or can you smell them from meters away?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Yes, it's known that humans have individually different sets of smell (and taste) receptors. So it wouldn't surprise me that some people would be able to smell ant trail/nest pheromones and the like. I'd guess it has less to do with formic acid though, as they do not regularly release that (it's used mainly for defense). Some people may be really triggered by the smell of certain flowers while most people would barely notice them. I my self recently developed a sensitivity to some certain chemical that appears to be in many cleaning agents, and it's very disturbing to find that disgusting smell in so many public places, dishwashing detergents, hair shampoos.

This phenomenon comes apparent a lot with foods and spices. My great example is coriander (cilantro): half of the people like the herb but for the rest it has a soapy taste so much that any food that contains coriander leaves is spoilt for them. Coriander seeds however, do not contain that specific compound. I'm one who can't stand the herb but very much likes the seeds as a spice.

Related and very interesting is also, is individually different bouquets of mating pheromones which are also present in humans (but perception is mostly subliminary). Those are connected to individual genetic sets of the immune system, a place where genetic variability and mixing is of great advantage. We choose our partners by (being able to) smell, more than we are aware of.

Infodump? ... Infodump.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I've always been able to smell them. I can't believe there are people out there who can't. My world has been rocked.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Non-ant-smeller here. Can you smell them before you see them? Or is the smell usually after you see them?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

For me it's usually only after they've died. They have this bitter, extremely unpleasant acidic smell to them.

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