Found an informed consent clinic that is "near" me but takes video calls so I don't have to wait months for care hopefully. Just keep getting too anxious to call them to make an appointment
this post was submitted on 01 Apr 2024
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An old jacket of mine I really liked doesn't fit anymore and it's got me feeling some kind of way. I can wear it, but when it's zipped I can't breathe lol
oh god i don't even know how i'm going to manage the second puberty emotions, i'm already having trouble dealing with the ones i have now
volcel criminal shit right here
the thought of "oh my god you can have a girl ass" crossed through my mind at work yesterday and i felt like i needed to lay down holy fuck 
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hey how come no one told me that realizing you're trans makes the dysphoria way worse? my new words i can use only have exacerbated my discomfort 
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inside of me there are two radically different trans femmes and they're both trying to win me over like they're trying to call over a puppy to see who the dog REALLY loves 
edit: oh i think these are OCs come to think of it. fuck. i guess this is a thing i have now 
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I keep doing gender affirmation for myself in the absolute dumbest possible way by just saying the normal, gender neutral shit I'm doing is actually girl stuff and super femme. Frozen pizzas for dinner is femme now. The worst part about this is that it actually sort of works
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last night I had a dream where something that isn't possible happened and it felt so real. it was wonderful in the moment, but I hope I never have that dream again 🫤
No Unjust Depths spoilers just gay mushy garbage ❤
Ulyana sighed a little inside, but she should have expected this anyway.
It wasn't like she had put a ring on her finger or anything.
She had not even confessed just how deep her feelings for this furry- eared, bright-eyed, thin-tailed Shimii had become. How much any word of support from her meant to Ulyana. Aaliyah, more than she knew, turned immediately into Ulyana's guiding light whenever she spoke. With this woman at her side, the Captain felt like she could go anywhere and conquer any obstacle.
This was not something that Ulyana could say out loud.
Chin up, Captain Ulyana!! Let the far-flung goal of Aaliyah ear-scritches be your motivating force!! You can save this fumble!!! Uncritical support!!!!
Tbh the idea that Ulyana has like no experience actually being in a deep relationship is just, 
let your "irrational girlish longing" flow, captain. Ugh I adore her, she can do it.
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Discussion of slur reclaimation, I try to avoid reproducing slurs but I gotta here and there so CW slurs, 4ch discussion
Something I had kind of memoryholed until just recently is that the kids, broadly speaking I guess under-20s, are trying to take back the t-slur! I have seen it in a Black Dresses server (surely the most apt place for this to happen) and also on tumblr generally. I'm pretty sure people do it irl too.
This isn't new for the trans community, ofc; if you read the ultraclassic Gender Outlaw(Bornstein), or indeed Trans Liberation(Feinberg), you can catch people identifying by "he-she", "f*ggot", "transvestite" and many other quaint slurs, and generally I think I support the motion to reclaim the t-slur. It seems like /pol/ and the gang have had to move onto the etymologically poor, far less effective "tr**n" as a substitute, slur downgrade, which is what we wanna see.
I have permanent brainrot though, like some of those /lgbt/ brainworms might never come out. I've tried using it for myself and such once or twice, but it's just burned into my brain as a 4chan thing, and all I can remember is getting bullied by tripcodes and called AGP and stuff on /mtfg/. Classic.
It feels kind of lame, because I like "dyke" and "queer" for myself, and while I wouldn't use "f*ggot" for myself, it doesn't touch any nerves. But that stupid blue board ruined my mind, and I'll forever be unable to get with it, I guess.
Uh thoughts if you have em? Idk how old or young the average age skews here =) Curious for other people's takes on this specific instance of slur reclaimation.
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Idk. I fucming hate the t-slur and the f-slur. Like, I have friends taking it back, and whatever. But it always makes my skin crawl no matter who says it. I get it in theory though but I just can't engage with that
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At least I'm not alone, I suppose, can't-engage solidarity.
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i don't like, regularly call myself the big t-slur, but i will for effect or if i think it's the only word that works in the situation. like when i had to explain the concept of reclaiming slurs to my mom or if i need to emphasize transphobia in a discussion. sometimes i'm with friends who are much bigger on reclaiming it and i can get into the mood then. i definitely don't think this is exclusively under-20 thing, most of the people i follow on tumblr doing this are at least that old (as am i) but it seems to skew young. i am also pro-reclaimation, but i totally get not feeling good about using it or hearing it.
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I usually inject once every.5 days but today is day 6 and I still haven't done it... I'm feeling quite weird and kinda raw and depressed. Is this expected or just me? Anyone else have any experience?
When I was on valerate I would often have a pretty down mood the on needle day/the day before. Hasn't been an issue since moving to enanthate though, which I assume is because longer halflife on the same 7 day cycle = stable levels.