Memes

People keep making these memes, yet I keep seeing plenty of vitriol in the comments

Don't tell em about the Sync discussions

Idk man... I've seen some truly passive aggressive comments sometimes. To the point where one could say 'I don't like your tone buddy'. Let's not glorify and patronize communities one over the other.

People on lemmy are taking the blue pill and thinking that the fediverse is wholesome, the fediverse is many things (mostly positive) but saying that we've got no assholes is a lie (OP did say that "the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤")

I actually saw someone change their mind in a heated thread. It was amazing.

What the fuck did you just fucking type about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at MIT, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids with Anonymous, and I have over 300 confirmed DDoSes. I am trained in online trolling and I’m the top hacker in the entire world. You are nothing to me but just another virus host. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on the Internet, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with typing that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we chat over Lemmy I am tracing your IP with my damn bare hands so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your computer. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can hack into your files in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in hacking, but I have access to the entire arsenal of every piece of malware ever created and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the world wide web, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking fingers. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit code all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.

I think the difference is that it's possible to actually engage with the community on Lemmy.

On Reddit if I see something I have a story or thought on there are already 5000+ comments. The only people responding to me are trolls and those with nothing to do but look for a fight.

On lemmy there might be 50 comments in 10 threads. Conversation can actually happen.

It's the difference between chatting at a party and shouting at a concert.

I just joined Lemmy and I have already seen a comment from a tankie telling all Americans to "rot and die" in this same community. So no, it's not all wholesome.

I saw a Lemmy user give 'benefit of the doubt' responses for seemingly curt comments, and then original commenter thanks them instead of feeling attacked. Bizarre to me. I feel like that happened on Reddit more often at some point, even for most non-specific communities, but I haven't seen it since.

This has not been my experience

That's simply not true lol

Shang-Chi is making some good points

Wait for it...

Shang Chi is a true leader here

The top picture is, and will always be, the whole of humanity. Don't fool yourself.

Meanwhile there are girl boring guy quirky memes all over this community. Casual sexism is what's wholesome.

Rose tinted glasses.

probably because social networks (including reddit) tend to destroy themselves (even without external help, they just get stagnant and boring) once they get too big?

I guess coz the communities are smaller they are easy to moderate !

There are fewer kids and fewer people on the right on this platform. So anyone near the center gets treated like dog water. You just dont see many.

Much of this appearance is due to absurd modding unfortunately. Removing any comments that the mods disagree with so they can have their echo chamber is a good way to give the appearance of a happy and supportive place while actually being the opposite.

Reading the mod logs is an exercise in frustration in a lot of communities here, especially on certain instances.

A lot less fuckin' manchildren and actual children on here, that's for sure. Kinda like Reddit in 2007 before the zoomers found it.

So far, ive seen it not like this for sync threads, as well as very pro/anti topics on communism/america