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Hello lemmies,

Yesterday was a bit of a shocking moment for me as my dentists told me I need to get braces to fix the alignment of some of my teeth. For context; as a young kid (11years)I broke my four front teeth, and had them replaced with fake ones (i believe they are known as veneers in English). They are now slowly falling off, as I have had them for a while (I am now 24). But before they can put on new ones, they want me to straighten out the positioning of the current ones, with braces.

Obviously this is the right choice, but I've always hated the thought of getting braces, especially this year as I will soon be starting work life and meeting new people.

Was therefore wondering what experiences people have with braces, especially if you had it as an adult / young adult. Anything I should know for upfront?

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Correcting your teeth is something you'll enjoy the rest of your life. Don't let your worries about how people will precieve you now impact the rest of your life

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Thank you, i believe this is the right way to think about it; just difficult to grasp. But you're absolutely right!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Yes. Do this. It'll be unpleasant but you'll regret it for the rest of your life if you don't do it.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 11 months ago

I'm in my mid 40s and, due to many things, it's too late for me. They won't shift without falling out.

I had half my teeth extracted last year, currently waiting on tens of thousands of dollars worth of implant and bridge work. If my teeth had been aligned, I'd still have some bad ones replaced, but it would've been far simpler.

Do it OP.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I’m 43 and am doing Invisalign as we speak.

I had braces in my teens but my orthodontist was an escaped nazi scientist who reveled in cruelty. I completed the course, but it gave me a phobia of dental work so I kinda… avoided dentists after.

Long story short: Invisalign and modern orthodontics is a world away from the 90s. No more mallets to hammer bands into teeth, no more night braces, etc. 3d models, computer aided treatment, it’s all like magic.

Do it, you’ll be happy you did. If you want more deets hit me up

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My wife wants to try invisalign and we're in our late 30s. She just wants to straighten her upper front teeth (slight overbite). Did your orthodontist say anything about expectations for adults and if there's any difference?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Nope no difference! Other than adults can be more trusted to wear them (some kids take them out and don’t put em back in so generally kids get normal braces). He figures if an adult pays and doesn’t wear them, not his problem.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago

I had them as an adult. They were annoying but worth it once they were removed.

No one made a big deal about them. They could make my teeth sore when I first got them or had anything adjusted, but again - more of a minor annoyance than outright pain. Nothing to be afraid of and I’m glad I did it now.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago

I've seen even people in their 40s using them. I don't think that it's a big deal, or that it's too late for that.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm just going to comment on work life - the truth is, the older I get the less I care about things like appearance. Depends on the profession of course but for f.e. office work - people don't care. Especially not if it's for medicall purpose (they could even have a problem with HR). I meam look at the older colleagues, they themselves look like shit, they don't care.

But I remember my mid 20s and I was exactly the same, now I look back and it's a bit funny. It'l be good, go for the braces :)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

Don't be put off by the initial discomfort. It'll feel weird at first.

Periodic tightenings are also slightly painful, but if you're a weirdo like me then you'll actually come to enjoy the feeling when it happens.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

50s and just spent a year in braces after dental surgery the year or so before screwed up my teeth. Now I am in my retainer. In all that time I cannot think of a single person who wasn't excited for me or at least interested in the fact I was wearing braces to get my teeth aligned.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Same! And it turns out like a dozen coworkers have Invisalign too, just never noticed till I got it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

I had braces in my early 20s. Its not a big deal. Just be ready for it to feel like youve been hit in the face with a train.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

I had the same thoughts when my dentist suggested it, but fortunately nowadays we have more choices for doing it.

I don't know where you live and how much you can expend in it, but I've decided to use these removable invisible aligners (like Invisalign) and had no regrets. They're faster to do their job, more trustable to get the alignment you need and, well, they're not too visible as regular braces.

As other people said, correcting your teeth is something you will enjoy for the rest of your life. So, if you can afford invisible aligners and can follow their instructions (like using them for 20h per day, regularly brushing your teeth etc), I totally recommend going this way.

Besides what method you'll choose, remember that everyone of them is temporary and you'll be really happy with the results in the near future. I get the concern about what other people will think, but you should remember you're doing something for you and to feel happier with yourself! :)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Braces on adults are common enough that most people don't care. There are options like Invisalign, ceramic or clear braces, and lingual braces (brackets behind the teeth) that you can ask about. If you work somewhere with a strict dress code you might want to stick to clear and white colored rubber bands, too. Though outside of that, people still won't care and colored rubber bands are cute.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's a massive pain in the ass but I say go for it. There are huge long term benefits which outweigh the inconvenience. You will probably have those teeth for there rest of your life so you might as well look after them.

I got braces at 21 and absolutely don't regret it. If anything I wish I used my retainer longer afterwards for maintenance.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Good to know, glad to hear!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Adding to the chorus of older folks telling you do it. I'm 45 and currently in braces, for nearly two years now (about to get them off). As far as I can tell, not a single person has reacted negatively to them in any way.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

I got some knockoff Invisalign from smile direct club, I wouldn't recommend them because they're undergoing a chapter 13 realignment or something but before 1850 bucks they did the job.

I have a much better smile, I don't hide half of my teeth when I'm smiling, honestly it was one of the better decisions I've made.

I'm sure there's some other company out there that can do just as good of a job, but ask your doctor if you're a good candidate for Invisalign and if you are then go for it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

If you're concerned about other folks - Most people don't give a slightest flying F.

You may (and probably will) find some man-childs having a giggle about it, but also some people that will understand that's for your good and nice straight teeth

But in some small percentage are weirdos that find it cool and attractive (like me lol)

But if you're concerned about your daily life with braces - I don't know, I had the removable ones and those were so uncomfortable and disgusting. Having a piece of plastic on my palate sometimes triggered a gag reflex. So yeah if only I knew I would choose the standard ones

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

I got braces for a second and third time as a result of jaw surgery both times in my 20s. Its not so bad.

The people that matter wont care and the people that care wont matter

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

My wife got hers last year and is turning 30 soon. No one cares, and any comments she gets are people liking the colors she picked.

Remember, 99% of people you encounter are so self involved they won't notice or remember something you think is super noticeable.

Buy a water flosser, though, because you absolutely have to brush and floss twice a day when you have them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Obviously this is the right choice

Is it? It's ok to get a second opinion from other dentists.

If their current position isn't causing you pain or tooth/jaw wear problems, then straightening them is a cosmetic decision. And if you didn't even realize they were that crooked until the dentist suggested straightening them, then the cosmetic aspect hasn't been bothering you.

In my country (US), dentistry is notorious for upselling unnecessary cosmetic procedures.

For example, I went to a new dentist and he found two "developing" cavities he wanted to proactively drill out and fill and a "flaw in the enamel" he could fix with a veneer. I thought that was weird since I have never had a cavity before in my life and the "enamel flaw" was cosmetic only and never bothered me. I went to another dentist for a second opinion and she told me my teeth were fine. 5 years later and those "developing" cavities never formed.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I had to switch dentists because of a move, and my current dentist won't stop recommending me braces.

"It's not just cosmetic. It will help the functionality and longevity of your teeth." I mean, my teeth aren't absolutely perfect, but they function and look fine to me. I have only ever had one other dentist mention that as a suggestion forever ago when I was a kid, and they didn't keep harping in about it.

It makes me super suspicious about it because the last dentist I had never mentioned a thing about braces, and my current one keeps bringing it up unprompted. My current one also tried to sell me a $300 toothbrush.

Get a second opinion.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well that’s not wrong though. Misaligned teeth can wear down faster, causing issues down the road. Also it can cause headaches and a bunch of other issues.

As for the toothbrush, was it the oral b IO? Mine did too, and I reluctantly bought it. The reason is I press too hard when brushing and I was affecting my enamel and gums. My dad and brother both do the same and both had to get gum grafts. The toothbrush notifies you with a light if you press too hard (or too gently), so it helps train me. I’m liking it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah, I don't mean to say that it's a total scam...just that it's ok to want to weigh your options to see what is worth it and what isn't. Especially because braces ain't cheap. And if someone doesn't want it, then it's appreciated to stop harping on them about it every single time.

I honestly have no idea what model the toothbrush was, but it wouldn't surprise me if it had that sort of feature. Nice to have for some, but not something I seem to have a need for.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There's low level constant pain that's not easily comparable to anything else, which gets worse the day after any adjustments are done. And make sure you get a retainer you can wear each night.

My mistake was not asking for an alternative retainer, and grinding teeth at night kept breaking my retainers until it got too expensive to keep getting new ones. Now I'll have to get braces or Invisalign or something to redo the straightening.

Good news is, I can still eat better than I could before I got braces.

In other news, seeing the Ear, Nose, and Throat specialist about my sinuses ended up curing the grinding along with mouth breathing and swollen sinuses.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

My wife did the Invisalign thing in her early 40s. Worked great! Nobody even knew she was wearing them. She’s much happier with her smile now and everyone benefits from even a small daily confidence boost. Expensive, but money well spent imo.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm an old adult and i went for Invisalign instead of braces two years ago.

Was pricey but an absolute breeze compared to the horror of having braces i experienced over two decades earlier.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I'll see if I could have this instead, seems alot better.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I’m in the mid 30’s and I have braces for a year now, go for it if you can afford! It will hurt for some days but it’s worth it.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Braces are a government ploy to monitor civilians through covert surveillance.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Riiiight...