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submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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i hope he's changed! and i'm glad people being shitty to trans women using femboys as a cudgel no longer have such a high profile tool to use! but i need people to understand this

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Nah dw I can see why my comment sounded weird.

I am not against trans influencers being in the closet. I was not pissed by PhilosophyTube coming out as trans after doing most of her transition because it's her business only, I don't care. I myself am closeted on HRT so I see the necessity. We are on the trans sub and I assumed we are all trans here. I just find F1nn and F1nn only annoying because it was very obviously also a channel gimmick. I would find myself annoying too if I became a "cis female fitness influencer" while being on testosterone. And honestly I have a negative perception of influencers in general that might play into this.

Sorry too if I sound defensive, my inbox did not get the messages and now I realized people assumed I was a guy doing the "they tricked me!1" thing, which there are probably a lot of.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

i wasn't assuming that, and i didn't want to come off like i'm dismissing your real hurt. I just don't think it's fair to put it all on him.