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I'm done, I've been banned for expressing a different opinion (without insulting or personally attacking anyone), I've been accused of evading a ban with multiple accounts (this is my only account I've ever had on any lemmy instance), I've had people selectively ignore my comments and accuse me of things which I never said, and I've had people ignore valid criticisms and keep attacking me.

Reddit has many issues with trolls, one-sided discussion, and just general bullshit, but many Lemmy instances are way worse. The newfound freedom of Lemmy has attracted many extremists, from both sides, and many of them are moderators, who are more than happy to remove any contrarian opinions. This results in discussions being echo chambers

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Here are some small pieces of advice for you, and anyone else who is interested:

  • Block Lemmygrad.ml, because fascists.

  • Block Lemmy.ml, because admins are fascists.

  • Block Hexbear.net, because fascists and trolls.

  • Block any user from Lemmygrad.ml, Hexbear.net, and the usual suspects from Lemmy.ml.

That's it. 90% of toxicity is no more.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago (7 children)

You have a strange definition of fascism. I've poked around in those instances to see what the fuss is about. They're super far left and very much ideologically opposed to fascism. They're something weird, but they're definitely not fascists.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 8 months ago (1 children)

They idolize left authoritarians. And their talking points are summed up by if "the west" says it, the opposite is true. And they will argue with you.

So fascism is a term that is thrown around incorrectly a lot, blocking these people does help improve your Lemmy experience.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Based on my observations, some of them support present and past left-authoritarians, but most don't. They're definitely critical of the west, but I think there's room for that criticism here.

It's kind of funny when they post about Ukraine. They're anti-NATO and anti-Putin, so they sometimes seem confused which side they're on.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago (3 children)

That is your confusion, my friend. You think you have to pick one of two sides, and they know differently.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

2 party conflicts generally have 2 sides to choose from. I’d like to support Poland in the war between Ukraine and Russia but the mechanics of the act aren’t readily apparent.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Right. It's not a 2-party conflict. There are two countries, but within each country are many groups of people with wildly different priorities.

For example... Does a military general worry much if one farm house is destroyed? Of course not. But the farmer sure does. We can argue about whose fault it is, Russia or Ukraine, but that doesn't bring back the property.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Sure, but subdividing isn’t particularly useful in this case. Russia quashes dissent with jail time, effectively creating a cohesive group through violence. Ukraine is a united front because it has to be. If someone were to begin talking about dissidents, that’d be an entirely different, and valuable, conversation. Speaking about the farmer whose barn was torched and grain stolen is still, to most, just talking about Ukraine.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

An army general has vastly different goals than a farmer, or a grandmother, or an elementary school student, or even a private first class. This is not really debatable, is it?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I am curious why you think people need to pick sides. And why you think there are only two sides. It's such a peculiar thing, and it suggests that you want polarization so you make simple arguments. But reality is complex.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I didn't say or suggest people need to pick a side.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Ah, maybe I clicked on the wrong thing. My apologies.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

You are very correct. This is why we argue so much on Lemmy; so many people think you have to pick between two sides.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 8 months ago (2 children)

They support Russia and the CCP, both of which have the warning signs of Fascism. Even if you want to call it something else, doesn't change that it's terrible.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Fascists believe in inequality based on identity. And most on lemmygrad agree that Russia is a far right regime.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I don't know lemmygrad. I know lemmy.ml and gave up on that when I was just having the same discussions, and the same debunking points over and over again. I don't have the energy for politics 24/7, especially when I don't think any predominate political group cares about me or the problems I care about.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Most agree? You linked a post without votes or comments...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Huh, that's weird. Try again? But surprisingly it's also on web-archive

[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago

Yikes, seems like the American right wing is fascist too. What's bizarre about all of this is that the tankies are very much opposed to the American right too. So they're anti-fascist? It seems that they're so opposed to western capital that they'll cheer for some really shitty governments because they're also fighting western capital.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

They aren't left in any meaningful way. Let alone far left. What they are is wildly hypocritical and authoritarian. While they are technically not fascists. Realistically they're nearly identical. They are both both authoritarian ideologies. With no room for any meaningful right or left. And should you dissent you will find yourself silenced or killed just the same as any other authoritarian/fascist government structure.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

^I'm ^just ^referencing ^the ^movie ^and ^being ^silly, ^not ^actually ^calling ^you ^a ^hag ^lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

They're super far left and very much ideologically opposed to fascism.

They deleted a comment in which I quoted the first line of the Wikipedia article on social democracy. The reason given was "misinformation".

Fascism is characterized by a dictatorial leader, centralized autocracy, forcible suppression of opposition.

I can very much see how that would apply.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Isnt that just authoritarianism, not specifically facism?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Sort of yeah, although authoritarianism doesn't have as much implication to a centralized autocracy or dictatorial leader.

I think one could argue that the mods are a centralized autocracy, but it'd be hard to argue there's a dictatorial leader, perhaps, unless there's some "main" mod. Idk. I'm fairly new to this whole Fediverse thing, just came in a week or two ago from Reddit.

Also, imo, political labels are just sort of... subjective. There's wiggle-room in definitions and practices. I think the reality of what is happening matters more than what label we use to describe it, but the label we do use helps people understand what we're talking about. Although, sometimes, it obviously also misleads, as the connotations and implications and definitions vary.

But I would agree with you that "fascism" is often too easily equated to authoritarianism that isn't necessarily far-right in the same way. It's just a convenient colloquial shortcut, essentially.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I would argue that fascism is indeed characterized by those things, but fascism is associated with the right, not the left. You're not a fascist if your trying to create equality for all, even if your actions are crazy. It's something else, but not facism.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Well, it's gonna be hard to accurately label all the mad authoritarian bastards we've had.

Some called Stalinism "red fascism", but yes, I do get your point.

My point is rather that, like "literally", "fascism" has started veering away from the prescriptive, "official" meaning it has, and more towards a (colloquial) generalised term for autocrats and authoritarian behaviour. Colloquial language is what it is, unfortunately.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I know. I think it's mostly people new to the topic not understanding the nuances. But that still worries me since it seems wrong to lump communists in the same group as fascists. Seems almost sinister imo. The two groups could not stand for more different things.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

It's problematic that a lot of people conflate communism with fascism and/or authoritarianism.

Communism might be ideological, sure, but it's not a form of government, it's an economic system. No, I don't believe any preplanned economy (which "real" communism sort of requires) would work in this day and age. However, I can definitely imagine it working in the far future.

It's not especially well explained how the economy works in Star Trek, but that is communism, and I don't see much fascism there.

(CCCP was autocratic communism, just so we're clear on what their system of government was.)

I believe it's largely due to the red scare. Which is also why so many Americans and (wannabe-American libertarians) conflate "socialism" with "communism". The same people also have a milder issue, conflating "capitalism" with "market economy."

I literally had a guy tell me "fascism is preferable to communism". And this guy lives in Finland and was from an academic bourgeoisie family, so should have basic education on what fascism actually is.

But no, they don't fucking get it.

I used to wonder, as a younger man, how on Earth the Nazi ever gathered enough support. I thought it's maybe one of those "fool me once" things, and people in the early 20th century weren't as connected or literate as we are.

But now it's happening again? Despite us having seen what happened last time? Despite us having unlimited connections to literally the whole world and it's information?

It just... depresses me so. I want to fight the windmills, but always having to fight alone is exhausting.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yeah it's actually refreshing to see their pov on things, don't always agree but they bring up good points

hexbear in particular is very supportive of marginalized groups and positive in general. I'm glad lemm.ee didn't defederate with the ml boogeymen

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I put up with hexbear for awhile, but I ended up blocking them eventually.

Sure, they don't mind explaining their points if you're careful about asking. But god forbid you express disagreement. If you aren't with them completely, you're a fascist.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

But god forbid you express disagreement. If you aren't with them completely, you're a fascist.

That's fair game. If they express their opinion at Lemmy.world we would also ~~lable~~ label them as fascist. Their community is their safe sanctuary where they can do unto others, what others do unto them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

If you say so. It isn't really my problem anymore either way. They can be insufferable by themselves if that's what they truly want

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I don't block any of them. In fact that's what I like about lemmy. This instance would definitely have been banned at Reddit. In fact, I want to see different opinions. I like to read how people of different opinions think. The only thing that I wish I wouldnt see are those very annoying meme/pics (comments) at hexbear.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Basically. After omitting that user base things are much better, if still healthily combative.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

This is part of the problem. People believing you but you are just calling peoples opinions you disagree with fascist lol. Most of these communities are communist afaik

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Most of these communities call themselves communists, but fall are so knee deep in logic fallacies, you spend more time picking their arguments apart then having a conversation. I gave up on lemmy.ml, because it was only a matter of time before I got banned anyway. Way too many people are basically "west/America bad, ergo Russia/CCP good."