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submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I am still very early in this whole process, and there is still a lot of self doubt, so I am reading a lot of literature on "Am I trans" and dysphoria.

One concept that people often like to propose in these ressources is the button that makes you the opposite gender, and, crucially, also makes everyone else believe that you have been that way forever.

I don't really like this, because my time as a boy/man is part of who I am. I would not be me without it, and despite all of the problems I had and have due to my gender, it is still part of who I am. I fought through all of this and worked to find out who I want to be by myself. I wouldn't wanna be cis, and I also don't want to cease being the me born out of this struggle.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

god this is funny

i was a category 4 transexual, i assume because i am autistic and have a hard time remembering people and that's feminine

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

category 4 transexual

"Your gender issues are real, and should not be ignored. Neither should you rush into acting on them"

me on diy hrt side-eye-1

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Lol I also got category 4. My friend, who is definitely more trans than ne got androgenyne or something and I think it kinda messed with her. She was too good at math and parking deeper-sadness