[email protected] - Oh my gosh I just figured it out.
Okay, all you open source evangelist people: your knee-jerk reaction to come at people who are talking about a problem with whatever commercial software they use and suggest Your Favorite Alternatives™ is exactly like saying "why don't you just buy a house?" to someone complaining about their landlord.
[email protected] - Actually, to borrow from @DoubleA, it's worse than that.
It's like talking to someone who is in a crappy apartment as though they have the agency and skills to stake out a plot of land and build their own home.
You have to be at peace with the fact that some people just want to exist and not worry about so many things. And they still have a right to complain about their situation.
Link to thread: https://mas.to/@TechConnectify/111539959265152243
He's a very good YouTuber who seems to have a side-gig shitting all over the Fedi, fedizens, and generally anyone who holds a different opinion.
My view is that snark attracts snark. I love this guy's videos and how thorough he is in his research and his occasional snide humor is fine, sometimes getting the YouTube comments in a frenzy.
On Mastodon it's harder because that kind of take invites a bunch of replies back, which regardless of how right or wrong you are, engaging in 20 arguments consecutively gets annoying. And being snarky about FOSS stuff on Mastodon stokes massive flamewars if not put under control or not being level-headed.
Being snarky is fine. Turning around and complaining about "harassment" from people after you posted a shit take is not.
Having as many followers as he does on the fediverse right now is difficult. There aren't any tools or options to reduce the flood of notifications you get or do do any sort of sane filtering (especially on mastodon) so i totally understand why he often reacts the way he does. You cant feasibly block or de-federate when your reach is so large.
Maybe if fedizens would stop trying to convert everone to their tech stack they would be less obnoxious.
Maybe he could be less obnoxious by just leaving?
And this is the reasons why the fediverse has such a hard time reaching mainstream adoption. Because people like you can't let others live their life. Maybe people don't want to spend time to switch to linux.
The Fediverse has no intent of reaching mainstream adoption.
If the way you "live your life" is by being a toxic asshole, you're gonna have a hard time no matter where you go.