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Should I file a missing person's report for my spouse? (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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We’ve been separated for over seven years, but we are still legally married. I have been filing taxes separately since then. This year, I sent a message to his VOIP phone number to ask if he was able to file his own taxes this year. He didn’t respond to me, and I let it go. I didn’t want to bother him, and assumed he ignored my message. I haven’t heard from him since. No one has seen him, or heard from him in years. His friends began answering his emails for him, as some kind of joke, so emails I have received over the years were all from them. I assumed he told them to email me and message me in the past, with messages he intended for me to receive.

Should I file a missing person’s report for him?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I don't want to accuse strangers of murder... but if his friends HAD killed him... this is completely consistent behaviour with what I'd expect from them and unbelievably odd behaviour otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I don’t think his friends would kill him. My concern would be him drinking too much, and having something happen as a result of that.