[-] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Exactly. I had to learn this too. I am unusual in a number of ways. When I treat people how I want to be treated I am often mistreating them and damaging the relationship. People are different and need different things. You have to communicate rather than unilaterally apply your self-empathy.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Autism trauma is my guess.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

“Oh. Any other opinions you care to share?”

[-] [email protected] 59 points 10 months ago

gestures broadly

[-] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

It’s great but hard on the old heartstrings.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

My ex got me using Etta & Billie soap. It’s amazing. For deodorant I use Schmidt’s Lavendar and Sage. I’ve tried other things but always come back to this.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 11 months ago

It’s also usually lawyers that create these names. I worked on databases for IBM Cloud and they were all called “IBM Cloud Databases for Elasticsearch” and what have you. Despite it being an offering of the database on IBM’s cloud.

Since Elasticsearch is a brand name, the “host” corporation corporation has to present it as a product “for” the brand name rather than as the brand name itself to avoid implying that they are acting AS Linux or Elasticsearch or whoever is the third party.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Oh absolutely.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Just have a cache invalidation strategy.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Menus or results that live update or shift such that as you are clicking on a thing, it swaps for something else, which is what you actually end up clicking.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Usually nmap

[-] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

Seldom unless I want to revisit or check something specific. I think journaling is more about digesting things than documenting things.

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