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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (2 children)

On a bus from El Paso to Phoenix someone smoked a joint in the bus bathroom and got dumped on the side of the highway immediately after.

Two hours later on that same bus trip the bus got raided by immigration and I got into an argument with the officer that wouldn't accept my ACTIVE, UNEXPIRED Military ID as a valid form of ID and started yelling at me for my passport (I have a Spanish last name). I threw my passport at him and told him to fuck off before I got my command group involved with his. I don't know how that worked but he got real quiet and left me alone immediately after that lol. There were several people that were pulled off of that bus that night. It was overall pretty shitty.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Did you read the article?

He was already a special needs student with an apparently individualized education program. This doesn't sound like a "Why now?" Situation. It sounds a bit like there may be more going on, especially since the school district declined to answer when questioned about it.

You may be right that it's probably not the first sign of aggression but he's also autistic with other issues. Do you know how expensive it is to get help, how our healthcare/insurance system preys on people to take their money rather than help them, and the likelihood of this family maybe not being able to help more than they already were?

I feel sorry for the person that he hurt, but this is a mentally ill black kid getting tossed in prison because of a mental illness. Which is going to ruin him just like you said.

The judge saying he showed no remorse is bs used to paint this kid in the worst light. Well no fucking shit he showed no remorse, if he's got a bunch of mental problems that would make sense. I knew a kid growing up that was similar, he was extremely strong and even the slightest thing could set him on a rampage. His parents drained everything they had into helping him, but it wasn't enough. When the insurance stops paying what are you going to do?

I'm not saying that nothing should be done but there's more to this than "parents failed the kid with mental disabilities".

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Edit: just realized you said US based. Tuta is not US based so that might not work for you. Sorry about that.

Tutanota (now just Tuta) allows you to use your domain. I use it, it doesn't support external clients (Outlook, Thunderbird, etc.) but they do have Android, Linux, Windows (maybe Mac too) clients.

It's also cheap.

I've been using it for a few years now, it works for me.

You can get a free account to check it out first and if you like it just upgrade to get the personal domain usage and increased storage limit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Yeah, it sounds like some reform to the process should be made.

I don't necessarily disagree with having child welfare involved, just how they handle things might be a bit (or a lot) on the iffy side.

This is where you get to an impasse though, the procedures are possibly (I say possibly because I don't know the history there) the way they are because people complained of not getting enough help, so the rules were changed to become more involved to better protect those needing help. Now it's too much so people are up in arms again.

So often victims of domestic abuse go back to that situation, whether it be fear, love, pain, or whatever other reason there is. There is a reason for "but we simply don't trust you to stick to that decision".

There isn't a cut and dry solution to problems like this. It doesn't really matter which direction they go, there will always be people screaming about not doing enough, or doing too much etc.

They may be legally required to tell the abuser what is going on... I mean, how can you serve a no contact order without telling the accused.

There is a ton of work to unfold here, so many things that are in place for a reason, as unreasonable as it may seem. It will always be a work in process with such sensitive situations.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I'm from the States and have spent a more than a decade living in other countries, and have had plenty of time to see how people around the world interact with their (and other people's) children. I have to agree with you that this really doesn't seem like a big deal.

It looks really bad from a western perspective, especially for people that have no understanding of other cultures.

Do I agree with it, no. That's just my personal preference though. He didn't backhand, punch, or otherwise harm the child, and the child didn't even seem phased by it.

Had he done this in a country other than Turkey it may be newsworthy, this just seems like rage bait.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 months ago

So why can't we call this what it is.

An attempt at election interference and throw his ass in prison for treason. For such a high profile person it should be considered no less.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You could use dd like the others suggested or try Ventoy.

I see a lot of praise for Balena Etcher but regardless of what platform I've tried to use it on, I have always had issues.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I would wager that it's perfectly fine.

I've spent some time in Indonesia where this is also common. I'm not dead yet lol.

Think about the millions of people in countries where the bathroom situation is like that. They live their lives like that, and have been doing so for a very long time. If it were a huge issue there would have been changes in their lifestyle to accommodate for that.

I'm not 100% on the differences in Indonesia and India, but at home there was soap so it was immediate washing. Out in public their either was only facilities for peeing, or if they did have toilets or a place for pooping, there would be a sprayer to wash off with so you didn't need to use your hand. Or if you got lucky they would have a sit down toilet with tp.

Edit: I see you mentioned not caring for personal opinion. Sorry about that, but realistically I doubt there's much need to worry considering the millions of people that live like that. If it was an issue they wouldn't live like that.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

You aren't wrong lol.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I agree with this too, except that last bit. Making a car manual has a near zero affect on people's use of phones when driving.

I say this as someone that used to use T9 to text when driving a manual car. Mind you that was 20 ish years ago when I was a stupid teenager, but there really was no difference between manual/automatic and using my phone when driving other than the added step of shifting.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Ahh ok, that makes more sense. To be fair though, I rarely saw any Subarus when I lived down south, but once I moved out west they are pretty much all over. So it's not beyond the realm of having different distributions of cars in different areas.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (2 children)

There are Mazda 5's for sale near where I live in the US. Where do you live in the US that they aren't available?

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