My definition of woke, if you ever need it:
When a person who enjoys an entitlement advocates for other to be allowed to do the same for no personal gain.
If anyone ever criticises 'woke' - especially in a group - I always, always press them for their definition. Not examples; definitions.
This is why it's always essential to press people for their definition and never let them fall back on examples.
"Okay, but if you saw behaviour you'd never seen before, how would you know it was woke if you weren't told? How do you define it? You are making your own decisions here, right?"