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submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

This community appears somewhat dead but just in case…..

I have a favorite pair of boots that I got well over 15 years ago. I take good care of my shoes but they have seen a lot of wear. I have searched in vain for a similar replacement with no hits and I wonder if anyone either knows of a good lesser known place to shop online…some better search terms, or even if my description below lights up a lightbulb for anyone who might have seen something that matches.

These boots are black suede, platform wedge boots. The platform is pretty decent (1/2” maybe) and the wedge and platform together probably give it about 4” of height. The calf is a VERY loose slouchy calf that stops about mid-calf height and tends to slouch down with wear to slightly lower. Around the ankle there is a subtle buckle and the whole thing pulls together for a kind of fashionable and chic but kinda tough and biker girl look. I guess maybe like sexy motorcycle chick? I can upload a pic if anyone shows any interest.

Anyways. I’ve searched all manner of loose, slouchy, baggy…platform wedge boot. Mostly getting snugger to the calf boots that have a slouched or folded LOOK but not actually one loose slouchy calf.

The suede part isn’t that big of a deal but I think it’s the softer sueded leather that makes it such a loose and kind of saggy calf. They look awesome with skinny jeans and I’m a large calved woman so that’s how I ended up with them in the first place.

Any ideas would be welcomed!

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

I am early 40s in the accounting industry. Married, no kids, don’t want em. Have cats. Live in the Midwest, a lefty, woman, vegetarian that hates labels (heh heh).

Came to lemmy shortly before the Reddit API fuckaroo after seeing all the posts about the fediverse. Given that I had dropped all social media except Reddit in the prior 2 years due to a combo of crazy people, algorithms and targeted advertising, I was primed for fleeing. I’m tech savvy but not a tech nerd. Open source, Linux, self-hosting, etc all interest me but without having a direct background in tech, I find it difficult to prioritize learning more about it all.

If I wasn’t so entranced by other people’s thoughts and opinions in text form (never generally been a fan of videos/photos as an information medium), I would have cut all ties. This space can honestly be a little too “damn the man” for me, as I like rules and order, but I also feel the frustration of the public and tend to feel somewhat impotent about it. Hence, I think this is about the best fit I’ll find to still be able to connect with the thoughts of people I don’t know and experiences I don’t have.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Cats are sensitive to a protein in our earwax so they find it appealing. I had a cat so obsessed he would hunt down my ear plugs (I had to put child locks on the bedside table drawers). Occasionally the earplugs would fall out in the middle of the night. One morning they both fell out and I grabbed one and thought I may have accidentally dropped the other. My cat raced in out of nowhere and I chased him away but I couldn’t find the plug. Fast forward twenty four hours later and I found a full ear plug in a pile of vomit. Thank goodness he was ok, but that damn cat zoomed in and swallowed that earplug whole in a millisecond and it makes me laugh thinking about it to this day.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Yes, for podcasts and then just transfer it back to my phone to continue listening as I get dressed/ready.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Shokz are awesome. I also have finicky and small ear holes that don’t like earbuds that much, along with piercings that can get annoyed depending on the style. Shockz solves all that plus I can hear my surroundings. Pro tip for camping…wear the shockz WITH earplugs and play white noise or sleep music. It was the only way I slept during a bass music festival with after parties going until dawn.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Same man, cept my cats were the audience.

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submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

I work at a very small company and am the only non-christian. It's not a faith based org but the owner is VERY religious and half of the employees are of the same faith. The rest are different factions of that faith. They all know i dont practice but i keep my views to myself.

However, im starting to tire of the “god is guiding us” talk. As an example, i recently made an error but discovered it quickly due to a series of coincidences and managed to fix it before it became a real issue. My boss made mention that “god is always guiding us” and basically said i was led to find this error by god. I REALLY wanted to ask where god’s guidance was when i made the error in the first place.

Anyways, whenever she says something like this I usually just give a “mmmhmmm” or other somewhat neutral and non-commital response. I honestly don’t think there IS a better way I can respond but figured I’d post here in case anyone had suggestions.

And before it’s suggested…there is no HR, it’s an amazing position outside putting up with the religious mumbo jumbo, and I’m not going to quit or report the boss.

P.S. as a reddit refugee who desperately missed the exchristian sub there, i do hope this community can get some more action. Reddit is dead to me, lol.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

The future is no place to place your better days.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I made a Lemmy account a couple weeks ago and started getting familiar with the fediverse. Then I decided to create a different user on Lemmy.world so I think I registered this one yesterday.

For the last 30 days I’ve still used Reddit because it has the most activity and it’s been like “this is the last time!!” kinda feels. But now I’ve discovered wefwef, and I’m not going to be using Reddit anymore so here I am.

I think a lot of people are similar…nostalgia and ease of use kept everyone mostly using Reddit and now the people who care about the whole issue will start contributing here.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Vote for keeping wefwef. It’s kitschy and odd and unique.

chikaygo

joined 1 year ago