For me, oddly, it's The Ring. The shitty american Ring that everyone agrees is really not very good and the ridiculous color filter slapped over the whole thing just makes it dreary and washed out and bad.
I know why this is, too. It's because I watched it in middle school before I had any experience with horror movies. The Ring was the first actual horror movie I ever watched and I didn't watch another until after college. As a result, I can't watch The Ring without being transported back to being a scared middle schooler. If I'd first watched it later, after I had a handle on the kinds of scares to expect from a horror movie, it wouldn't have affected me the same. Objectively, it's not that scary and is mostly just kind of bad, but fuck me if Samara climbing out of a TV isn't an image that scares me to this day, every time I think about it!
I love lemmy, having been here since the very earliest hexbear days. In my view, the devs are doing the best they can. They're a tiny team surviving on grants, trying to produce software that the users, for some reason, expect to have feature parity with reddit, a large corporation with a large paid dev team. It's weird to say the least.
My understanding is that nutomic and dessalines survive solely on that 4000 euros per month, because all of their time goes to lemmy. How do you want them to survive? They need to eat and pay rent, you know. The real world exists and they're humans in it, needing food and sleep and shelter.
It seems to me you want magic. You don't want the lemmy devs to be humans, you want them to be magic coder gods who are infinitely patient, with boundless time and energy. But that's completely unrealistic, you surely must see that, right?