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My 13 hour flight just got delayed 7 hours, I'm stuck at my second airport, and I dont think I'm gonna make it. I have some movies and audio books on my phone, but really only anticipated having to burn the flight time via napping and some media, not 7 hours leading up to it, and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna mentally burn out on passive media.

  • I have media on my phone - movies, shows and audio books, but I can only do about 2-3 hours at a stretch before I burn out on those things.
  • I have wifi and power both on the ground and on the plane, although I'm sure the connection once we get going isn't going to be performance enough for online games.
  • I have a phone and headset but didn't bring a laptop because it was just extra bulk I didn't think I'd need. I don't have a switch or steam deck or anything neat.
  • I have access to the airport lounge, so drinks are free, and I get free drinks on the plane. I don't want to get wasted or have to pee constantly, so my plan is to jim lahey it.
  • I'm intrigued by mobile games, but every one I've tried has felt too gimmicky with gambling or freemium BS mechanics. Also tried started valley but it never got me hooked either. I have an android and will buy games if they're worth it.
  • I'm open to any other ideas that could somehow mentally (or physically while on the ground) stimulate me.
  • I'm a dude in my 30s with a family and kids, but I'm currently traveling solo.
  • I've already killed 2 hours on a plane and 2 more on the ground (my planned connection time) doing nothing, I was saving my media trying to avoid burning out on shit before I get on the plane.
  • I suck at sleeping when on the go.
  • I'm on my 3rd mimosa and bored as fuck.

Help.

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[–] [email protected] 193 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unfucking your email. Find all the newsletters from worthless sites and block / unsubscribe. Sightly productive, and brainlessly easy.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

In a similar vein, go through your photos and clean up all the extras and outtakes that you don't want anymore. Also, star your favorites so they're easier to find later. This can take hours if you've put it off for years.

[–] [email protected] 187 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tell TSA your username. They'll find something for you to do for 20 hours.

[–] [email protected] 76 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Those are for later πŸ‘€

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Loving the Lahey reference. Might try exploring the airport with a few drinks in your head.

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[–] [email protected] 131 points 1 year ago (15 children)

Not trying to be a contrarian (it just happens!) but boredom will not kill you. In fact, I challenge you to sit and be bored for a good few minutes. It's good for you. I'm terrible at it myself, but that's what being a dopamine crack addict will do, I guess.

If you're out of ideas for things to do, try mindfulness meditation (Waking Up is an app with a bunch of free lessons to get you started) - very little woowoo, just pay cursory attention to something, then when your mind inevitably wanders off, just "notice" and be, well, mindful. It's like an antidote for boredom, in a weird way, and studies have shown that for whatever reason, it's good for you.

Myself, I read books for any "random short term downtime".

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Can confirm. The longest train I ever rode was a 44h long train. The first 12-24 hours push on your nerves: you've listened to music, read a book, eaten, slept, and haven't much left to do. But slowly you come to understanding:"you don't HAVE to do something". This is when the therapy starts.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

And it really does seem therapeutical. I scoffed a bit the first time I read about dopamine detoxes and stuff, but I've also, since then, caught myself being very nearly literally afraid of getting bored. That is insane.

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[–] [email protected] 123 points 1 year ago (5 children)

If the lounge has a shower, do some exercise get that energy out of your system. Then take a shower.

You got 7 hours to kill, do some laps around the airport. Get the energy out. And when you're ready to rest, play some games on your phone (like a emulator)

And when you get on the flight just veg out

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know about a full workout, since my athletic clothes aren't available to me, but lugging my shit on laps is a good call just to burn energy. I did a lap of the airport and it was about 45 min, so another mimosa or two at the next lounge then I'll do another lap or two.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Seconding a workout. It'll kill time now, give you something productive as a reward, not deplete your reserves of consumable content, and tire you out for your actual flight.

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[–] [email protected] 76 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Read a book?

Like, how desperate are you for stimulation that you're making this sound like an emergency?

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Or if you're attention span is killed like mine, find an audiobook and listen on 2x or 3x. If you happen to have a library card, libby is usually great. Otherwise YouTube has some.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

He mentioned that he has audiobooks he was saving for the flight. I get the uneasy, jittery boredom aspect. Especially when you had a reasonable expectation of how your time was meant to be spent and that was disrupted. It's just lingering frustration and anticipation for what you originally set out to do. For anxious or neurodivergent people that can cause a degree of distress. Especially for something that's already as unpleasant/stressful as flying. Not that it's life threatening or can't be managed. But it's easy enough to see how his language reflects that mindset, giving it an air of urgency. I'm not saying OP has anxiety or is neurodivergent but it can happen in people without these issues too to varying degrees. They're just painfully bored. It's not an emergency, but it can be difficult

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I'd recommend reading Wikipedia

More content than you could possibly read, short reads typically, you learn stuff, and you can make games out of it

A game I like to play is to come up with 2 completely unrelated things, start on thing 1, and see if you can get to thing 2 on Wikipedia in 6 tabs or less, using Wikipedia links only

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

The number of wiki tabs open on my phone from shit that I intend to finish in the future but rarely make time to do so supports this suggestion.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Good lord I WISH I could get 20 straight hours where no one bothered me. That's a fucking dream right there.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Invent a language, then teach it to a stranger against their will.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
  1. Go to the tech store in the airport. Buy a cheap chromebook. Open an account on Opalstack. Build a webpage from scratch. Learn a backend language like php or python. Learn git. Maybe set up your own Lemmy instance.

  2. Install Keyboard Designer from the android play store and take a stab at customizing your own keyboard.

  3. Leave the airport and go to a museum or swimming pool or poolhall. Be back in time to go through security.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Whenever I get stuck in an airport I like to use the opportunity to move around, since you're not going to have that luxury on your flight.

Airport scavenger hunt:

Easy (1 point)

– Someone trying to explain to a TSA agent why there’s a larger-than-3.4-ounces bottle of shampoo/conditioner/moisturizer in his or her carry-on bag.

– Someone throwing away a bottle of water or newly bought cup of coffee at the TSA checkpoint (get an extra two points if the person is chugging the water or coffee in order not to waste it, or three points if it’s alcohol).

– One person using all the outlets at a charging station for his or her multiple devices.

– The traveler pretending not to know English in order to board the flight before his or her zone is called.

– Someone with a carry-on bag on the chair next to him or her in the waiting area to discourage anyone else from sitting there.

– The vacationer in shorts departing a warm-weather destination for a cold-weather one.

– Someone in a later zone blocking the gate entrance so passengers in earlier zones can’t board.

– The well-dressed business traveler with just a briefcase who is on a cell phone every minute before takeoff.

– The couple standing on both sides of the moving walkway, preventing anyone else from passing them.

Medium (2 points)

– A woman trying on eye shadow, nail polish or perfume at a duty-free shop.

– A gate attendant pretending he or she doesn’t see the person waiting at the desk to ask a question.

– Someone near the check-in desk repacking a suitcase and redistributing items because the bag is too heavy.

– A rowdy school/church group that you hope isn’t on your flight.

– An argument at the ticket counter (add an extra two points if the gate agent is actually remaining friendly and trying to help).

– A small child with a character-themed suitcase/backpack.

Hard (3 points)

– A kid standing on the baggage claim conveyer belt (get an extra point if the kid has actually gone for a ride on it).

– A person fumbling with multiple coins and currencies while trying to pay at a shop or restaurant.

– The backpackers who have clearly been traveling for months and may or may not have dreads (an extra point for dreads).

– The person who arrives late to the airport and begins asking everyone if he or she can cut the line in order to make it to the gate in time.

– The honeymooners (or soon-to-be-married couple) wearing bride and groom apparel.

– Sports team members wearing matching uniforms.

– Someone changing in a bathroom stall (an extra point if he or she uses the sink for face washing or tooth brushing).

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Dude, hustle up to the bar and drink 13 beers like the rest of us, and fall asleep on the plane during boarding, after you've reminded the gate attendant that you're mentally handicapped.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am not very helpful, but don't kill these hours, befriend them!

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

https://movie-web.app/

A free and open source online web app for streaming content. They’re committed to no ads, pop ups, or other weird malicious stuff you’d see on other streaming sites. Binge a series or two!

Waitβ€” this was posted 24 hours ago. Oh well.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Slay the Spire is a great game that works well on mobile and has no microtransactions. I’ve played it for 400 hours (on PC) and I’m still not tired of it.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Vampire survivors is a good mobile game aswell.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Shattered Pixel Dungeon

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.shatteredpixel.shatteredpixeldungeon

Infuriating because you will die over and over again, but super satisfying when you figure things out and manage to win. It has a ton of replayability.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Maybe it there's a bookstore close by you can get a book? I've been really enjoying I am robot by Isaac Asimov. It's sci-fi. It basically tells stories from a future where robots are more capable than humans will ever be. And to stop the robots from rioting there are 3 rules.

  1. Robots can never hurt people, or let them get hurt by doing nothing. (I'm translating from my first language if there's any mistakes I'm sorry)
  2. Unless it interferes with the first rule robots will always obey humans.
  3. Unless it interferes with first and the second rule robots will always protect themselves.
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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

Man I would love 20hrs to kill by myself. With 7 hours at the airport is leaving the airport an option? Like others have said. Read a book. Get your steps up. Try and do 10,000 steps walking the entire airport. Buy a notepad and draw the people our sights around you

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Download unciv. It's a civilization 5 clone with stripped down graphics but gameplay remains the same. You can kill an eternity with civilization games.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

Streetcomplete to contribute to osm?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He said 20 hours, not days

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

He might miss his flight

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I've been hooked on Sudoku on my phone recently. LibreSudoku is a good Android app.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where is LOTR when you need it?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Try Vampire Survivors! It's a free mobile game that has no right being as fun as it is. You run around trying to kill monsters and level up your weapons without dying, but you can focus on dodging because all the weapons auto-attack. I'm not sure I'm explaining it super well, but it's worth trying!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

If you haven't already you can usually ger compensation for delayed flight. Check out the compensation page for the airline your using.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

books.

Read the first three chapters of name of the wind, then try to stop.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

There is a Webcomic called Romantically Apocalyptic. It is a visual novel that has been going on for years. The creator just keeps adding. 300 pages.of highly detailed visuals in an eccentric story.

If you end up vibing with the story that'll definitely kill a lot of time.

Name is misleading, as I haven't seen much in the way of romance lol.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Learn a memory technique. Start with Major system and go on from there. If you keep going, on the next long flight you'll be happily creating new memory palaces or revisiting the old ones. All in your mind, no electronic devices needed.

They're not only fun but useful as well.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Snag some brochures and try your hand at origami. In the lounge, you can make paper airplanes, and in the air, you can make little figures/objects. I can easily spend an hour folding a paper airplane, taking my time to ensure the folds are even and crisp, and that there is no built up stress that warps the wings.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Take it as a meditation challenge, just be alone and quiet with nothing but your thoughts.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

3 hours have passed since you posted this and I read it. Time flies!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Start writing your memoirs. Or begin writing a semi-erotic fantasy novel. If you're lucky, the two may be the same thing.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Go outside and sit with the smokers.

Smokers talk. Everyone's equal in the smoke pit. You can meet some really interesting people that way.

A few hours of secondhand smoke won't kill you. Otherwise humanity would have gone extinct in the 70s.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

There is no safe level of exposure to secondhand smoke; even brief exposure can cause serious health problems and be deadly.

https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/secondhand-smoke/about.html

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