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Lil' cross-post from Lemmy.ca.

With women’s fashion, it’s an easy one with pockets and for some probably less sheer/thin or tight-fitting clothing depending on their preferences, but for men…?

What would you like to see done differently in men’s fashion?

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[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Bring back capes. I want a big fur cloak in the winter.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Edna Mode would have something to say to you.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (3 children)

As an almost 50yo dad in decent shape my options for casual wear are limited. If I start dressing more trendy I look like I'm trying to be young. If I dress too comfortable I look like I'm giving up. Pretty much the only thing we can get away with is jeans and a black or white t-shirt. Or some non descript shirt. Buying shorts is maddening because cargo shorts are "out" and everything else is too "cool". Everything ends up being boring.

I've resorted to buying better quality because it at least makes me feel I'm trying. But it's still just ... boring.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago

Fuck the haters. Buy what you like.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Wait, cargo shorts are 'out'? Shit. That's like most of my shorts lol, they're the best. For reference I'm 17 but not particularly fashion aware. Most of what I wear is robotics club t-shirt plus cargo shorts, jeans, or cargo pants. So don't feel bad about what you wear, just wear what's comfortable and you like.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

If you care about fashion, everything will go out of style every now and then. If you like cargo shorts, wear them. There's no reason to cater to someone elses gatekeeping. If you think that they don't fit your look, then that's a completely different issue.

They are very handy too in all the right ways.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You're 17, nothing is out of fashion at that age.

But also pairing with a robotics club t-shirt is about as good as it gets for cargo shorts. I've seen plenty of grown men rocking that uniform. If you're into robotics, having all those pockets makes sense 😅

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

kilts would be nice. I like the fresh breeze.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Yes, more everyday kilt-wearing. (and not utili-kilts, those are just cargo shorts…)

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago

Normalise Roman style tunics. The whole thing is just a rectangle with a slit (for the neck) and sewing (for the sides), with two optional sleeves, and fastened to the waist with a belt, it doesn't get simpler than that.

Also undyed clothes becoming a thing. What's wrong with raw colours?

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

They literally look sloppy unless they feel too tight. I aim for about a 15% reduction in blood flow to my brain; then I know I'm looking sharp.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'd change everything! Women's fashion has so many different sewing techniques and styles - maybe 10% of those are in men's fashion. Give men lettuce hems and dropped waists! Princess seams and tulip sleeves! Make fashion unisex!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't know what any of those terms mean, but I support you in this!

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

Stop gendering fashion.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

Formalwear for when it is hot outside. Like a summer wedding or something. It’s always fuckin miserable going to those kind of events sweating the whole time

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I would drape myself in velvet, if it was socially acceptable @ElectroVagrant

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

More varied formalwear than "suit with some superficial variations" (tux, 2- or 3-piece, colors, tie variety). Broader range of styles.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

I would love to see more color and flair normalized for all kinds of men. I see so many dudes wearing the khaki pants, blue dress shirt uniform. Boring.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Hats. It used to be that people wouldn't be seen dead outside without a hat but these days, unless you're a big fan of baseball hats, your options are sorely limited.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly, give me a purse. For utility, a wallet simply doesn't compare.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Cotopaxi is making fannypacks cool again. I'm seeing dudes wear these in Colorado.

https://www.cotopaxi.com/products/kapai-1-5l-hip-pack-del-dia

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

actual skirts and dresses being a common piece of clothing for men. I love how they look and feel

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Kind of like the tupenu in Tonga which is a pretty typical business attire. Looks sharp too.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Variation and color. I have the choice.of three minutely different collars and it can be black, blue, or gray. I want tangerine, asymmetric, with an ascot.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Skirts! I want my legs to be free!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Bring back baggy pants... cuz stretch jeans are not for men, period.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

I had a pair of relaxed fit jeans that also had polyester in the material. They were the best jeans I've ever owned. I got skinnier and under grew them, which was sad. The stretch on them only comes into play when sitting/squatting and it was well received. That said, I wear baggy, oversized sweatpants 90% of the time I'm not in jeans. Comfort > style

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The stretch on them only truth can't into okay when sitting/squatting and it was week received.

Can you please translate this to English?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Wow, I fucked that up. I have edited my comment. I should proof read mobile typing.

*Only comes into play....and it was well received.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Something that’s inexpensive, comfortable, and socially acceptable. I could not give a fuck less what it looks like. I don’t think a $5k suit shows that I know what I am doing; in fact, it suggests the opposite. Someone that purchases a $5k suit is bad with money. I’m not.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Normalize patterns, stoning, sequins, and non-functional accessories; normalize wrap around single legged bottoms of all kinds.... I'm genderqueer so neither side of gendered clothing styles suits me ideally, so I mix them, but I'm not especially feminine, so I'd like to find like, thick flat black skirts, shawls, and all kinds of feminized items in more masculine styles, and of course the opposite for femme leaning enbies and varieties for any other potential aesthetic.

I think we should just take all the styles we have, mix them in the languages and symbols of any gendered styles we can, so everybody can wear any items they like best in styles they most appreciate aesthetically.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Robes, or whatever it is that Olgeird wears in The Witcher. Those would look fresh as hell and it would be nice to have an outfit to throw on like a dress.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Some form of medium sized bag that wouldn't attract the "handbag" stigma. I use a laptop bag due to the amount of stuff I carry with me but it is a bit too big.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

make early final fantasy fashion more normal

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No more tucking your shirt in. That shits uncomfortable af

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I want to go to work wearing cozy robes that give big buffs to intellect, haste, and mastery that give off a vibe of 10,000 souls of the dammed are sewn into the threads. You know, dress for the job you want. I guess cloaks would be a reasonable start since raid gear may be a bit of an inconvenience in the office.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Propeller beanies as formal and business attire.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

No ties, no shirts, nothing in that fashion that is even close to formal

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

An underwear with hollow threads. With an option to pass liquid CO2 through them. Totally fucking chilling underpants.

Programming will be fun in hot weather. Very few people understand the thermodynamic of chair fusion and underwear fabric.

And running half marathon would also be nice in them.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I know it is not your question but… Everyone says pockets for women’s fashion but that is not the most important. At least here in the US the most important is having proper sizes on clothes.

For the most part men’s clothes let you pick things right. You know your waist and inseam for pants, and often have a proper size for shirts and collars.

Women’s fashion often has no size other than the ambiguous s/m/l/xl indicator and teen/woman’s/plus often use the same tag to indicate wildly different sizes. On top of that, when close use a measurement it is not grounded in reality, so a 14 at one shop may be a 16 at another, and neither are a direct measure of your waist. Finally women’s pants only come in 3 lengths (petite, tall, or not specified) and it is difficult to find most combinations.

The best thing we could do for fashion in any sex is to standardize sizes globally and make them all based on a tape measure measurement. That way you could buy 32x30 pants online knowing they will fit, no matter the brand.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As a man I can assure you we have the same problem. I have garments with a 30" waist that fit the same as a 34" waist. And I have pants with a 29" inseam that go past my feet and 32" inseam that don't.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

We should bring back codpieces and flamboyant colored pantaloons, frills, and velvet jackets, at least in winter. Summer thong & codpiece would be fine.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I'd like to see people give less of a shit what other men wear.

Fashion might be the most consumerist addiction we have in the world and fast fashion is wreaking terrible damage. Any creativity is lost to brand addiction and trend chasing. Don't even get me started on advertising!

Clothes serve a utility, but fashion is the capitalisation of envy and materisalism. Wear monochrome if you want. Wear pink if you want. Just don't kill the planet in the name of "fashion".

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let me dress in cool trench coats without looking like some kind of creep. That and capes too.

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