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How come she likes to mash her head into my thighs but when I mash my head into her side she meows at me?

How come she wants to bite my hands and feet but if I bite her she gets upset and runs away?

Someone help me logic and reason with the beast.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

i think a big part of it is just that she knows that behavior isn't normal for you. if you had always responded to headbutts with headbutts then she'd probably be fine with it, but since it's not your normal reaction she's like "dude why are you being weird"

also in both cases she's probably fishing for the very specific reaction of you rubbing her with your fingers which probably feels better than a headbutt or a bite

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

I don't believe you

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

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