Don't let a bunch of dicks ruin your day. You look amazing, and nobody can take that away.
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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Gender Spectrum // Resources for youth, parents and family, educators, mental health professionals and faith leaders.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
Thanks so much, y'all really did help me to feel better <3
Pfft bunch of wankers.
How was your birthday regardless of those buzzkillers? Did you had a great time?
By the look of your selfie, you seem to be a very respectable woman with a great style.
So... Ignore them, smile them away. And smile to yourself, because you deserve that!
You look great, your hair is a lovely color, and I love your outfit! The pairing of green and muted/darker reds is great, it’s one of the few ways to pair green and red without giving Xmas vibes and you nailed it. Also stellar pattern mixing, it is really hard to pair plaids in similar colors but these go great together. I hope your birthday turns around and you end your day on a good note OP, you deserve to be happy today (and every day) :)
holy shit just realised these are christmas colours, you are so right!
Just because I don't understand your journey, it doesn't make your journey any less valid.
Sometimes it's hard for an outside person to know where someone is on their journey and which way they are going based on a quick interaction. How they respond says more about their life journey than it does about yours. Sorry you had a disappointing day.
I'm so jealous of your hair! Gorgeous! Happy birthday doll!
Heya, I’m a 🦂too! Happy birthday lovely 😊
Green singlet, red flannel is a classic look and you’re killing it! Maybe I’m being presumptuous, but I’d swipe right on these powerful gay vibes 👀😍
I love your style. What's your tattoo? I own like 10 tanks and a few flannels, we're like sisters from another mister 🥰😂
What's your tattoo?
It's a silly 90s style tribal that covers my forearm
One can never have enough flannel <3
I think you look fantastic 🧡 Happy birthday!!
Mean people suck. Realizing that the problem was them and not you, reaching out to a friendly community for support - you handled it like a champ!Happpy birthday, and bask in the glow of knowing love and support are there for the asking!
Hoping you can be who you are. Good luck.
You're cute, and I'm a lesbian 😊
Tartan aesthetic is an absolute vibe
Happy birthday! You and your outfit look great for cuddle weather!
Happy birthday beauty 😘😘
Happy birthday! Things will get much better, and you'll find people who love you for who you are
How hecking dumb would someone have to be to misgender you. You rock, Happy Birthday 🎂
Happy birthday!!! You look beautiful.
Happy Birthday, you have great hair!
Happy birthday! You look great, don't let some dumbasses get you down.
People can really suck, but funny let them stop you from having an amazing birthday.
Happy birthday!
Sicc drip!
Happy birthday!!!
How hecking dumb would someone have to be to misgender you. You rock, Happy Birthday 🎂
Happy birthday, darling. I love your nails and you hair looks so healthy! I'm sorry you had a hard day.
Hey, you look great in this photo, but a real quick tip about mirror photos like these - it genuinely helps a lot to look into the camera in the mirror rather than to look at the phone to make sure the picture looks good while taking it, or at least to look elsewhere in the mirror. It gives a much better impression of your typical expression, unless your typical expression is in fact looking down with your eyelids mostly closed - but I say this from the perspective of someone who's eyes are usually drawn forward.