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[–] [email protected] 104 points 9 months ago (3 children)

My dad really changed since joining TikTok. Now that's all he talks about. Come look at this, come look at this,...
"But I am busy."
"Oh, come on, it's short."
"Look. See? People love Putin."

For fucks sake... Then he proceeds to loudly curse when he gets yet another account banned for posting some trash.
When I try to talk to him, I am met with "Wait, I just have to finish this video." then later he complains I don't talk with him. ¿?

I mean, it's not just TikTok alone, he uses Facebook, TikTok and VKontakte, but I feel like that had the biggest influence.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

start behind the scene subscribing to anti-putin posts and channels and see he changing opinion lol

[–] [email protected] 53 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Ask not what you could do for the algorithm. Ask what the algorithm can do for you.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

The future is bright!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago (2 children)

100%. This actually works. Most boomers are not technologically late enough to track subscriptions and such.

There was a YouTube video not a documentary (similar to The Brainwashing of My Dad) where their father went down the rabbithole, but they started subscribing them to better news sources, and eventually to left-leaning news sources, and he did a whole 180°.

Fear is like a drug. It's addictive, and rightwing media sources have cracked the formula on how to get people addicted to it, and it can happen to ANYONE. The uneducated to the well-educated. The only thing that makes you immune to it is critical thinking and empathy - which is why I feel that their next war is on education and masculinity. They are literally trying to perfect the addiction so you can never leave it.

This is part of the reason why education is so insanely important.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I feel that their next war is on education and masculinity.

The latest shots in the former march on by under the banner of 'woke [literally any noun]' is ruining our children these days, but that war has been raging since the 80s. 'They're' winning by strangling the purse strings and efficiencies out of public education.

The latter? Masculinity? That one has been a total occupation for hundreds of years already.

Our sisters, mothers, and daughters have been warning us even before the side effects get to them. Of the emotional self-immolation a Patriarchic-controlled society demands of men by violence and shame until 'Men don't cry' can be such poisonous words that many men end up kissing the barrel of a gun than using their lips to communicate their struggles to each other.

It took trauma and the effects of such turning sharpening empathy into a survival mechanism rather than the too often opposite for me to even have been able to introspect myself out of just the more common and pervasive aspects of 'toxic masculinity'.

Make no mistakes; whatever you want to call 'hearts and minds', the twisted craven swine undermining the concept of basic humanity know very well to keep assaulting them. Education and empathy are the only things that can empower an actual successful removal of the Takers' ability to do the same.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

exactly, i got this idea from a brazilian tweet, where she did the same with her mom and it worked lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

My father's the same but I think moving south really revealed what was already there. This just highlights it more.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

My dad can hardly use his phone and this sounds absolutely haunting.