the_dunk_tank

Just wish they'd stop ruining a kink of mine... Like I'm down to share, swing, and be poly but to be entirely replaced sexually would be frustrating and might actually end the relationship but if I'm involved enough I wouldn't mind not being the primary. If whomever my hypothetical bf, gf, whatever, was seeing, wanted to rail me too and or was inclusive and not there to just cut me off from intimacy, and was there to enhance the experience for all, then it's all gravy. If I'm replaced sexually, but otherwise we're still very intimate and there isn't this feeling of growing apart between me and my partner then I could see about salvaging the relationship and seeing how they'd like to have me involved as long as I'm not just strictly relegated to a corner. Like maybe I'll squeeze this or that, make out, just help keep it going, idk, compersion is a hell of a thing and watching someone being fucked irl is so much different than in porn and I don't even mean strictly as a cuckold but even as a threesome it's hot as fuck. I think my hard boundaries are just no fascists (low-key... Maybe a comrade who shares what I guess I would describe as penis fascism, AND they're packing more than me [not super common tbh, part off the thrill I suppose, usually when they're bigger they're monstrous and it's just 😩] , so long as that's the extent of their porn brainworms) and if I get the chance to explore that sexual space again I'll do better about voicing some soft boundaries or things that bother me as they come up. (I'm way to much of a people pleaser and will just stay quiet and bottle things up, gotta work on that.) But the idea that (((the blacks))) are coming to forcefully cuck you kinda gives me the impression that you might not treat your partner well enough and she wants better from someone else and your kinda letting that known by how you think cuckoldry is and how it works; that your wife/partner is small/weak minded and a strong charismatic man can manipulate her into leaving you for him, instead of her having enough of your caucacity on the daily and deciding maybe enough is enough and or wanting to explore herself sexually, who knows it could be a myriad of reasons. While there are narcissists and they can be manipulative and they do use sex as a manipulative tool, it is not a monolith or hallmark of one race. There is a rainbow (wow how fitting almost like the pride flag was on to something) of how people feel, act, and have intimacy and would like to engage in intimacy; to think it's a single minded goal to snuff out the hwite race is silly and if it's that fragile, idk maybe it's too weak to survive, survival of the fittest yada yada.