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if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have
same goes double for the word guy.
I was thinking mainly about leading a sentence with them:
"mate, what's going on?"
expresses more concern than
"what's going on, mate?"
I can see what you mean. Thanks again!