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[โ€“] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Having an excessive amount of kids.

Dystopic I know, but hear me out. I think this is already on the cusp of falling out of social norms as there are shows that let the American public gawk on the dynamics of very large families. Of course an "excessive" amount is vague and subjective but there is growing evidence on poorer outcomes for children who may have less nurturing and less family resources due to competition from having too many siblings. I myself come from a large family - so this is casual speculation from having witnessed the VERY different family dynamics from friends who came from single or two-child households.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

The whole idea of having a family and where it sits on your life and goals definitely seems on the cusp of permanent change, I agree.

Lots of factors around this. Good answer!!