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If You Can't Control Yourself, Don't Be Polyamorous - Poly Land (poly.land)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I dont like the text. Self control and love dont mix that well (for me). Also telling people they should not be polyamorous as if thats a choice for everybody is just not how that works for everybody.

Let me tell you, if you can’t exercise self-control, then there’s no way you should be polyamorous. All that lies down that path is pain, bad behavior, heartache, and disappointment.

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[–] [email protected] -5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If you have no self control then you do not respect boundaries.

Like who needs self control for that? Isnt it just the most basic thing to be careful and mindful with the people you love or care about?

Maybe we have different perspectives on what self control means for us, but instead of exploring that you tell me I dont respect boundaries. Seems like we will not reach an understanding.