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[–] [email protected] 66 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

So, I have been both working, studying, and spent leisure time in India about a year in total. I lived for 6 months outside New Delhi in the slums. Made interview among tribes and people displaced by established nature tourism. Together with my wife. Been to tourist spots as well.

Yea you are kind of like a bunch of school kids sometimes. Just a bit scarier. I only encountered the grandiose self image besides India in the US.

My wife could not be alone a second.

The fascist Hindu nationalism is awful to see , for a western fascist probably laughable.

Just to be plain: You think India is best in all the ways , for an outsider it's like a bunch of people throwing everything in a pile and letting the strongest win.

Just the amount of people trying to prove forced marriage is so much better than the possibility for divorce or just marry who you want.

Of course different rules based on caste , one of my Indian friends who is kind of famous in the movie business still have a hard time based on his last name and actually trying to do some good in India.

The ads in your papers sounds like you selling cows rather than your sisters and daughters.

Don't get me wrong there are great people , great movements and great things in India.

But overall WTF...

Today I would not return for leisure unless to visit friends there.

*Edited due to poor wordings.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Awhile ago I learned that there's a thing called casteism. I thought racism was extremely stupid, but casteism just cranks the stupidity to 11. So instead of discriminating against someone's skin tone or nationality, you're discriminating against literally nothing??? Whatever, man...

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago

From what I heard in podcasts this is even a serious problem in the US tech scene, which hires a lot of professionals from India. Imagine being descriminated against by your manager because of caste in silicon valley.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Yea Hindu nationalism is kind of built around that. If you are poor you are poor because you deserve it. And we are rich because we deserve it etc..

Interviewed a guy from the Communist party about caste among other thing and even they have a hard time getting people out of the caste think among their own members.

It's so hard rooted you need a revolution to even scratch the surface of it.