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I kimd of am, why are so many relationships in media strsight? We need more lgbt representation

This is dumb and I'm probably getting offended for no reason but here's a small experience I dealt with recently

So like 30 minutes ago my grandmother wanted me to smile so she told me to think of a pretty girl and while I didn't react at all my first thought was literally "why not pretty boys" Its silly I know.

I'm not out but I literally couldn't be leaving anymore hints that I'm bi. Its funny how nobody noticed yet

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They didn't say it's the default. If more people are straight, you'll see more straight representation. That's just generally how things work for everything, not just sexual orientation. There are more white people on TV in the US. There are more Japanese people on TV in Japan. You don't see as many redheads in American media. There aren't many shows focused around little people. I could go on and on with examples here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They're also saying "we don't need more", overlooking the entire value of representation.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah the "need" part doesn't come off the best, but I get what they mean. I think they're saying the current representation is adequate, whether or not that's agreed upon.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

that's exactly how I meant it when I wrote the comment. Purely from a statistical perspective. Your "there are more japanese people on japanese tv" example pretty much sums it up. I'm just not as good as you at choosing my words.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

This is a duplicate of two other discussions on statistics already happening in this post. I'm glad there's a lot of people pushing back to show you how you're wrong and actively causing harm to people right now, but I wanted to let you know that any further discussion trying to back up your point will be removed and you will be ejected for a failure of empathy and the ability to start any kind of meaningful discussion.