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[–] [email protected] 54 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Being depressed about depressing circumstances is not mental illness. Prove me wrong.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You are correct. Sometimes people say "depressed" when what they truly mean is "sad". There's plenty to be sad about.

EDIT: Battling chronic clinical depression since 1989. Depression makes no sense.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

What about when the depression prevents someone from changing their depressing circumstances?

I’m not saying all depressing circumstances are changeable (see also the serenity prayer), but there are plenty of people who leave a bad situation once they get help, and then no longer need that help.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

And then there are people who aren’t even in a bad situation they’re just anhedonic and struggling with depression.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

And being optimistic in truly hopeless, depressing circumstances is delusional.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Especially when the root causes are outside of your control.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

OK, so it's not mental illness, it's realism. How do you propose people deal with that situation?

I would start with therapies that help them identify what changes they need to make. Then, give the person treatments that have been proven to create better outcomes for people-in-depressing-circumstances (lifestyle and pharmaceutical).

Oh hey, I just invented mental healthcare for people with "realism."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I'm depressed because we're killing the planet and everything that lives on it.