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[–] [email protected] 48 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (13 children)

I'm still unclear on why this whole thing is so important that it's worth putting time and money into finding a solution for the color of word bubbles.

Edit: all this time I thought it was just an argument over bubble colors. But no, it's also potato quality videos and pictures ruining every group message with both Apple and Android in the mix.

[–] [email protected] 66 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Its not just the word bubbles. Pictures and videos come through on Android like complete shit. I can't even have my wife send me pictures of the kids cause I can't see them on the other end. Nor can I watch family videos sent to me. Its much more than simple colors, but of course kids are getting bullied for that.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Now this makes sense, thank you. Garbage quality video and pictures are a so annoying. It seems to ruin an entire group chat if one of them is on an iPhone. I often have to wait until I see someone in person or have them send it through a different app for the video to work.

I have yet to get a group conversation to switch to Signal or something to avoid the potato quality videos

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Apple could fix this by uploading the photos to iCloud and sending a link. But improving the experience of SMS chats is not profitable, so they instead actively downgrade the experience.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

I always send an iCloud link for photos when I know that there’s someone who may not be using an iPhone. I’m not sure why others don’t. It’s especially useful when sending large numbers of pictures.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yea, this is a USA problem. Elsewhere everyone just uses a messaging app of their network's choice.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (6 children)

Tell the wife to use telegram or another messaging client. There are plenty of perfectly good alternatives to imessages.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (7 children)

We use messenger, which I also don't like. Its ridiculous. If these fucken tech giants aren't going to right interoperability standards then someone needs to force them to. We made all this shit to make life better and somehow have forgotten that was the fucken goal.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (4 children)

For better or worse you happen to be using the one messaging app that is broadly agreed to be worse than iMessage.

Signal and Telegram are far superior, even putting aside the most glaring flaws of the other two.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Signal/Telegram are not very common where I’m at. I have Signal, nobody in my contacts does.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I've successfully converted a spouse, which I don't think is out of the question w.r.t who I replied to.

I've also converted my main friend group, but appreciate that's insurmountable for a lot of people - genuinely, people hate change after all. I'm lucky to have a lot of friends who work in tech and are receptive to trying new things.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Its convenience. Why have both of us download a new app strictly for pictures when she is already on Facebook, and I have a dusty one with no posts for a decade. Plus getting someone in the US to download a 3rd party messaging app is like asking them to respond to the Nigerian Prince for his offers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Fair enough. It's kind of an oxymoron to worry about the trust of a given 3rd party messaging app while using products from a known, wide scale, repeated privacy intruder like Meta, but you have what you need in terms of convenience so I won't make a further case for an alternative.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Believe me, I know. I wouldn't be using it if the people I need it for would switch. But people don't give a shit here. I gave up trying to move apps. The rest of my shit is arch linux and de googled. This is the last hold out.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Why messenger of all things. That's the worst one.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I prefer Signal to telegram and it's been amazing the whole time I've used it

Now if I could just convince more people I know to switch to it that'd be great

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

The better option is to push Google and Apple to adopt a completely open version of RCS with end to end encryption so that regardless of whatever app someone is using, you know for a fact that they can receive your message.

The broken messaging ecosystem between WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal, and others is a shit sandwich.

People would lose their minds if email was the same way.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

That doesn’t solve the interoperability problem. You can’t guarantee who has what messaging app. You shouldn’t need a 3rd party app for basic functionality, anyway.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

That's certainly less desirable option for many. But why is wanting modern cross platform messaging so bad? It works iPhone to iPhone, works Android to Android, theoretically if there were other players (maybe if BB or Windows still had phones) they could also achieve the same using RCS with Android. This argument is and has always been about default protocols that phone can communicate with. Of course downloading 3rd party chat apps, emailing them, mailing them a letter, using a cup and string, stopping communication because they chose to use a phone from a different manufacture are all still "options".

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm still unclear why this gets asked every post unless people keep ignoring the answers.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Me too, really do not understand this on Lemmy of all places. It isn't and never has been outside of people still school age been about the color of the bubble. I truly want to understand this to the point I'm going to start asking anyone who posts this personally the following:

Do you A) really think that the following are not at all important to people:

  • Read receipts
  • Typing indicators
  • Reactions
  • Transferring photos/videos in a way that doesn't look they were shot on an early 90s camera phone
  • Potential E2EE *(Potential because my points are not necessarily specific to Beeper Mini and iMessage, but also relevant to the conversation around Apple supporting RCS and the unknowns about how that will work)

B) Not aware of these things or any of the differences between iMessage, SMS, RCS, etc and truly believe the only difference is the bubble color? C) Is this just a smug reaction to the possibility that one of these App work arounds work iMessage will no longer be as exclusive if they were to succeed, and trying to reduce down the desires of those who would use it (and also the desires of Apple users who want these benefits with everyone regardless of who manufactured their phone)

@[email protected] I'd be curious to know which phone platform you use?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I think the point is all these features are supported by RCS. Open standard that would be trivial for Apple to implement. They choose not to because they are greedy cunts. They are fully aware that this causes bullying and inability of tech illiterate to communicate with their friends/family.

Nobody older than 13 cares about color of text messages and most people recognize convenience of a single app for all messaging needs. This is an issue that Apple could trivially make disappear overnight if they weren't cunts.

Fuck Apple.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

So you're saying it's just about bubble color

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm agreeing with you maybe I'm just misreading the tone of your reply haha.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Yeah I was being stupid/silly :)

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have a friend who use iMessage on their Mac and will check that more often than their phone. If I text them during work hours, it'll be hours before hearing back from them. Turns out, from what I'm told, iMessage on Mac has a setting to not show SMS on the desktop, so my messages were only going to their phone, which wasn't checked as frequently. I guess when you enable SMS, notifications get messed up, and read SMS on your iPhone aren't synced, and show up as unread (or something like that). In anycase, SMS got turned off at some point.

Obviously, none of this is really my problem, but it's frustrating, more than just the color of the bubbles. The Network effect is real, and asking someone to switch to a new platform is not as easy as it sounds.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If they enable iCloud sync for messages it will update everywhere, they can also make sure they have Text Message Forwarding selected on their phone. They’ll get the messages in a timely manner (I get mine at the exact same time as my phone) and read messages will be reflected in all locations. I’ve been using iMessage on a Mac, iPad, and iPhone in some combination or other since the feature was offered, and the only issue I’ve ever had with sync was when I did a clean setup on a new Mac instead of a setup from backup. The above options weren’t selected.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I’ve found this feature mostly reliable. Those times where it doesn’t work, or I’m travelling, or don’t have phone reception is kinda annoying. But being able to just use my Mac is fantastic.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago (4 children)

I'm not either. considering that over 70% of the world is on android, you'd think the compatibility problem would be laid on Apple and not 3rd party applications.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

70% of the world is using Google and Apple is giving Google the middle finger.

😂

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago

To be fair, I am using Google (via Android) and am also giving Google (Chrome) the middle finger.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

iMessage lock in is almost exclusively a US problem (maybe EU, but i have no experience living there so i'm not sure). I'm from Malaysia and 99% of communication here is done through whatsapp and I know this is true for many other countries too. Line is frequently used in korea, Wechat in china, etc. It was only when I moved to the US that I used iMessage in any serious capacity

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Group chat. You can’t have a properly working group chat if there’s an android in the mix.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Now that people bring up group chat, I realized that the opposite is also true. One apple in the mix will ruin all the videos in a group chat.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Most Android phones use RCS now but iPhone doesn't, so with an iPhone in the chat it will also need to resort to sending SMS/MMS instead

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Group chat. You can’t have a properly working group chat if there’s ~~an android~~ SMS in the mix.

This is by Apple's design choice, not because Android.

Android can send as high a quality over SMS/MMS as the network will allow. iPhone can't.

In Apple's defense, you'd still lose all the iMessage features when SMS is involved, because what else are you going to do when one participant doesn't have iMessage? You'll fallback to the lowest common mechanism.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You can’t have a properly working group chat if there’s ~~an android~~ SMS in the mix.

So anything that isn't iOS/iMessage.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

The reason is that if they have a solution, people will pay for it, and thus they'll make money.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago (3 children)

It’s really about interoperability of systems, protocols, services, and clients. Since we’re both using Lemmy I assume we both understand at least a bit about the significance of interoperability.

I think it’s a shame that effort is put in to reverse engineering.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Which is funny considering that apples current implementation is less secure because sending the non-imessage users from iMessage breaks the encryption, meaning everything sent to a non-imessage recipient is sent in plain text.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Seems like it's designed to get Apple users to push away anyone who uses a non-apple device

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