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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I was a good muslim kid, than I learned that god hated gay people, I didn't. So that kicked off my questioning.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am involved with a bunch of atheist social groups. In my very anecdotal not scientific observations I have noticed that Muslims have the hardest deconversions. Any thoughts on that? Also is there anything I can do when I meet ex-muslims to help?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

In my experience one of the problems is that Turkish society is based so much in religion meaning like you are seen like a deviant or something by people around you when you say "fuck that" about religion. When I was younger another thing that I found shitty was the double standards of people when you try to vent on the internet. ex-christians are allowed to say "fuck christianity" and people will show solidarity but whenever I said "Islam is maybe bad?" People called me an islamaphobe, that closed me off for a while about talking about religion. Both of these peoblems were mostly things that bothered me when I just left religion and nowadays I am more at peace with myself and with people I care about around me. what you can do is probs show them solidatity and understanding.