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Former religious lemmings, what made you quit religion or stop being a believer? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 11 months ago by ani to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 11 months ago

Here's a couple silly reasons why:

I kept asking for supernatural things to happen, or to win something like a small school lottery. The fact nothing happened, let alone a clear punishment, did disappoint me.
When I discovered that Santa was fake was when my faith started to really crumble.
Sometimes listening to the Pastors speak gives me a nice sensation on the back of my neck. I later discovered ASMR. I sometimes still listen to old religious people speak, but I'm not actually paying attention.

Here's the real reasons why:

Finding too many things I disagreed with or did not understand from the text.
Having a religious preacher fail to explain them to me.
Discovering other religions exist.
Learning what a cult is and making 1:1 comparisons to most religious entities.
Discovering how shitty the real world is.
Science (like, all of it)
History (also, all of it)
Discovering philosophy