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[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (6 children)

Given that raising a child is, from a sourceless quick google, about $20-30k a year, they better not be. As for loneliness, a cat’s about $650 a year, and makes a similar level of intelligent conversation for the first ten years or so.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

IMO, children in their early life are mainly expensive in opportunity costs, assuming you have a full time parent taking care of the child. Diapers are food are relatively cheap but taking a parent out of the work force or the alternate, providing day care, is very expensive.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

What the? Where I live, a kid costs between 350 and 700 per month, 250€ monthly tax reduction/month/child by the government not factored in

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Oh I'm so jealous. I've got two kids in the United States and it cost almost $3k per month in daycare alone. We're not taking them to an incredibly fancy daycare either!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear... Those are the things people need to be reminded of when they brag about the oh so high average wages in the US. Daycare here is 400/Month max. I mean, you can go more expensive of course for some fancy rich-kid-establishment of course.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

sourceless quick google

It could be including childcare, increased housing costs for larger housing, any myriad of things.

https://smartasset.com/financial-advisor/cost-raise-child-2023#:~:text=The%20ongoing%20costs%20of%20child,the%20U.S.%20is%20%2420%2C813%20annually.

This was the article at the top of google. Looks like yeah childcare + housing are the majority of the costs.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Admittedly, I don't have a cat, but I would have thought they're more expensive than that. My parents had / have cats. A vet bill is like $150 a pop.

I think I'd want one of those self-cleaning litter boxes as well (if I had a cat). Those start around $600, right?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well vets visits shouldn't be much more frequent than once a year, and believe it or not, $600 litter boxes are optional. Also, whatever litterbox you buy should last more than a year.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

All fair points, but 2 unexpected vet bills in one year has a high stress tax as well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

As for loneliness, a cat’s about $650 a year,

Vet costs not included.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Sure, and the child could have an extremely expensive form of ass cancer. Unless you mean routine costs, which were covered by the article I yanked that number from without reading

https://www.aspcapetinsurance.com/resources/cat-ownership-cost/#:~:text=How%20Much%20Does%20a%20Cat,to%20around%20%2453%20a%20month.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Fair, for me that would be covered by healthcare insurance, while pet insurance is a massive scam.

I realize things are probably different in the US.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

a similar level of intelligent conversation for the first ten years or so.

At first I thought that was hyperbole. Then I remembered my friend’s 8yo…