Image of a screenshot of Twitter of a screenshot of Facebook.
The Facebook screenshot reads:
Fun fact about me: When I'm having a conversation with you, I will periodically bring up personal experiences from my own life, interspersed withing your own stories that you're telling me. I'm not doing this to try and make the conversation about me, or to take away from your own experience. Actually, what I'm attempting to do, is to try and show you that I do, in fact, understand what you're trying to tell me, and that I am giving your story my full attention.
It can really be off-putting to some people, so if I've ever done this to you during a conversation, I just wanted to make sure you know that I wasn't trying to take over your story, I was just doing my best to connect with you in the moment.
The screenshot of Twitter reads:
This. I am fully aware that I do this. And I feel so guilty every time, but this. Understand this.
I think sometimes it's about winning. I knew this one guy who just ALWAYS did it better, or had it worse. If he asked how you were doing and you said "Great! I just beat a tough level on Candy Crush!" He'd say (and I'll add that he didn't have an aggressive tone at all, he was always friendly) "Oh that's great! I used to play that game a lot. Haven't touched it since I beat ALL the levels, though"
And even if you immediately followed that up with, "but, I just got news that my grandma isn't doing well." He'd be like, "Oh man, that's hard to hear, one of my grandma's has Alzheimer's, and the other has terminal cancer all over her body. Could get the call any day."
And even though he was always friendly I walked away from every conversation feeling like I didn't matter at all.