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I think that, most of the time, we're all locked in our own tiny worlds that are completely filled by our lives, making us forget to really inquire about the people around us. But if you start talking about things, people are usually interested! It's not an easy thing to do, especially if you don't have many opportunities - but I can really recommend trying to share some bits and pieces about cool things that the other person might enjoy. Worst case they don't respond and you can drop it. But there's also a good chance it will lead to good things! :)
That's true for a lot of people but my situation is complicated. Like I said before, I've just learned to live with it.
Besides, the problems temporary enough. Eventually I'll die and then it'll solve itself.
I really, really wish you the best of luck that you'll have positive experiences in the future.